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So my sister is the most horrible person I have ever met. Thinking of examples of why she is a bad person makes me hate her more. I hate no one else. Is it normal to find myself wishing she'd get run over by a semi-truck?
I wouldn't let someone effect your life that much. Hate is a waste of time. You'd feel so much better just not caring about it and moving on with your life.
It's normal to feel hate for certain people who have really hurt you badly but it's not good to dwell on it and sit in that emotion and just baste yourself; stewing in your own juices. It's a lot like taking poison yourself and hoping your enemy will die from it.
I also find it kinda suspicious that you haven't provided examples. It's hard to form an opinion or make a judgment without any details.
No, it's not normal, you immature brat! Grow up and stop obsessing about your freaking sister!
I don't how old are you but right now if you are in your early teens this is quit normal. An obsessed mind thinks in this way too but as you grow up this feeling gradually decreases by how you both get mutually understood. But if you are above matured better always love your patience.
I was closer to my siblings than I am now but I think we were that way because all we had were each other. Now we are all very different always have been, it just doesn't mesh as well as it used too.
I agree w the others. No matter how sadistic she may be, the problem is yours. You are letting negativity control you at this point.
Given the fact you presented examples makes me think maybe you are the messed up one. No it is not normal to hate your sister for no reason.
I hated my younger brothers.... I mean I really really hated them. i wanted to kill one of them and when I got old enough to leave home I left gladly. I am so much happier without them in my life and I feel so free! i am pretty sure my brothers hated me too and they prob am super glad I am gone but idc. One thing I do realize is the hate I felt for my brothers I realize it was never for my brothers it was for my mom who would always make me babysit my brothers and always made me look after them. I didn't realize this until I had an arguement with her before I left home. I realized i never hated my brothers, I just hated my mother. I was the black sheep becuz I had a different father but my brothers all had the same dad and my mom was with their dad. So sometimes I felt like she loved them more then me and she let them get away with more then I ever was able to get away with. She was totally different with them then she was with me. Dig deep in yourself and try and figure out y u hate ur sister so much... Maybe you just need to move away from her for a while. I know from experience that if you stay away long enough u will eventually miss her... Just for a second but the thought of her will surely pop up in ur head from time to time. Maybe you do truly hate her that is okay and is normal. Give yourself some space from her and maybe after years of being away from eachother when you see her again when you have grown up and had children then you will connect and everything will come to light. Maybe you and her will finally see eye to eye and maybe for once in your life you will enjoy her company. I have seen that happen time and time again where siblings hated eachother and then all of a sudden years later was very close and loving. So don't kill her yet... Just give the relationship some time to develope.