Is it normal for me to feel guilty after dumping a fake friend?

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Okay so here's the story. Let me start from the beginning. She just moved into my neighborhood last summer. She seemed so sweet and we instantly clicked... or so i thought. When school started, I found out that she critisizes about the way i look or what clothes I wear. She talks about me to other people. I didn't even know what to do. (I was having a breakdown with other problems) When my friends found out they got pissed at her and A lot of them didn't even want to be her friend. She would just cry and threaten to go to the dean/Counsoler. My friends told me to stay away from her. But i felt bad for her so.... i just Stayed with her. But in the end I broke apart our friendship because she was hurting too many of the people i cared about. But i Just feel so bad for her because she just keeps getting into trouble and is too much of a brat to notice it. Is it even normal to feel guilty about this? If not, Can i get some advice?

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  • lufa
    10 years ago

    It seems she's destroying her own reputation. Perhaps she's having personal problems that are making her behave in this anti-social manner.

    If your friends are suggesting that you should stay away from her, then you should probably listen to them.

    You don't sound like you have the self-confidence to have enough of an emotional detachment to help her out. So let someone else do it.

    It could also be that she's just innately evil and deserves what she gets. I know a girl like that-people talk about her behind her back, she acts like she runs shit, but she's a nobody.

    Anyways, I think it's best you just avoid her, based on what you posted here.

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    • CherryMae
      10 years ago

      Technically she says she has some problems to worry about like people are bullying her or people are threatening to fight her. But in my opinion it' her fault because they're it bullying her, she started the fights and arguments and is always trying to get someone to take a hit for her. She practically uses her friends. But thanks for your advice :D

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      I couldn't agree more!

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      • lufa
        10 years ago

        thanks

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  • 3rdXsTheCharm
    10 years ago

    It does sound like she has an emotional difficulty of her own.

    The question to ask yourself, is if your own emotional needs are grounded enough to help someone else?
    The decision is ultimately up to you, and I think it's nice of you to consider helping someone who has hurt you, despite the consequences, the world needs more people like you.
    Just my opinion.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Go back to El Salvidor

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    you should have left her little presents.

    If you know what i mean.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Cute little turdlets wrapped in ribbons and bows.

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  • Maggie2000
    10 years ago

    She SHOULD go to that dean/counsellor. Why would she say that as a threat? She needs help.

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    • CherryMae
      10 years ago

      No. She knows how to get other people in trouble if they do something she dosent like. That's why it's a threat cuz she got 2 people suspended for reasons that happened like 2 months ago

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  • EccentricWeird
    10 years ago

    I try to figure out what the majority vote will be and then vote the other way. This one was difficult, because you're a prick and a whiner, so you'll have liberal do-gooder white knight cunts voting both ways. So fuck this post.

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