Is it normal for me to except his lies

I have been dating this guy for 1 year now, and i know he has just started dating someone else while still in the relationship with me. But he says he is just dating her to use her for her car and money.He uses her car, and the money she gives him to come see me,take me out, and buy me stuff. He also tells me he loves me and i'm the person he wants to marry just he is using her to get on his feet. Is it normal for me to accept his relationship with her because he uses the stuff she gives him on me.

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Based on 67 votes (9 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • flutterhigh

    Don't except his lies! That's a rule that should have no acceptions!

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    • Idontpulloutmycouchdoes

      Haha acceptions and except should be switched :)

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      • flutterhigh

        Not quite there, but yes, that was the joke.

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  • joybird

    He's lying to you! He sounds like a male prostitute and if you accept her money, then you're his pimp ;o)

    Dump him pet, you're worth a lot better!

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  • Idontpulloutmycouchdoes

    I dont think so at all, guys can be sneaky like that and try n get the best of both worlds. Who knows what he is saying to the other girl, why would she just give him things like that? I doubt she even knows about you.

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    stop letting him take you for granted. have some diginity holy jeez..
    that guy is pretty fuking pathetic to get money by going to another person. what a golddigger ur bf is. heartless not to mention for both of you gals.
    Stop letting him control u like a puppet, stand up to urself, have some self-respect.

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  • Verstehen

    Seriously? He's a jackass and you need to stop letting him get away with this. It's wrong and GROSS and sooooo disrespectful! Obviously, you don't have enough self-respect to care about what he's doing to YOU, but think about HER. I'm sure she has no idea that she's being used. And do you think if she's giving him all this stuff that there's any chance he's not having sex with her? Please. You don't even have any way of knowing whether he showers between her and you. Think about that: he has sex with her, takes her money and car, picks you up, takes you out in HER car with HER money, and then he gives you sloppy seconds! I guess that makes you and her semen sisters. Plus, it's not sweet for him to spend that money on you. It's not his money It's HER money. SHE is spending that money on you. You and her should just go lesbian for each other because you're sharing everything and she's your sugar momma.

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  • moomus

    People only treat you like you allow them to...

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  • graphic_nature

    Even if he WAS using her and wanted you, that's despicable and wrong to treat ANYONE like that. But thats not even the reality, the reality is you're letting yourself get treated like crap even though you know what he's up too, getting two pussies at a time. Stop letting him have his cake and eat it too, he's worthless.

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  • SoccerStud88

    you just want him cuz of the great sex

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