Is it normal for me to do this? i feel bad.

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So my friend asked if she could use my laptop for a project because I have a certain editing program and camera that she could use. And at first a while back I said yes that she can use it, only because I don't want to say No you can't, when in my head I was really didn't want to share it. Well she asked me if she could come over and use and I told her how I really felt, and hope she didn't think I was rude or anything and that I should not have got her hopes up in the first place. Is it normal for me to do this? Or am I just an asshole.

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  • tellmeimwrong
    11 years ago

    Delete your porn and let her borrow it, asshole.

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    • RubyCane
      11 years ago

      OMFG, I was about to write EXACTLY THE SAME COMMENT!!! XDDD

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  • flax
    11 years ago

    You should have been honest about it from the beginning, however it isn't wrong. I don't like people using my things period - I don't know why, but somehow things never come back the way they left, and then I get shitty because others don't care and appreciate your things the way you do.

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  • justinetld
    11 years ago

    Lol although it kinda is an asshole thing to do, I know if I had been honest and just explained how I felt my friends would understand lol

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    You're not a asshole, but is a bit inconsiderate. However knowing me, I'd probably never agree to it. I'm not doing anything naughty with my laptop, but I just want privacy and I don't want people snooping on my laptop. It's normal and hopefully she'll understand.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    It's normal, but inconsiderate, reach out to help someone can have its rewards. Learn to be a better person and friend.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Hopefully she found another way to get the project done. Can you imagine if she counted on using yours, and didn't have a backup plan? Then you screwed her majorly and she is going to fail!

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