Is it normal for me to constantly compare myself to other girls?

So basically I have a friend who, in my opinion, is absolutely gorgeous. I actually broke down and cried because of how "ugly" I think I am in comparison to her. Her body is curvier than mine as well as better proportioned, Her hair is longer, and she recieves tons of compliments from girls and guy about how cute and beautiful she is. I'm very self conscious, especially about my body (I have very small boobs), and don't really think I am pretty whatsoever. I also compare myself to other girls, who get lots of compliments and attention from guys.

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  • LostN_Herhead

    Every girl/ women I know does this in some way... I know I do. One girl could have a bigger gap between her legs while this other girl over here has beautiful blue eyes. Us as women, put tooo much pressure on ourselves to be that perfect image that guys expect us to be, but we all know that not one person in the world is PERFECT!!!! I've recetly been told it's not really how hot you are it's your attitude on life and how confident you are as a women. Be it small boobs, big boobs, thick thighs, or chicken legs if you can find pride with who you are that's what people will notice the most from you. I myself am working towards being more confident and have the right attitude when it comes to comparing myself to other women.
    SMILE AND FIND ONE THING YOU LOVE ABOUT YOURSELF!!!!!!! Do this every morning when you get up and i believe you'll learn to love yourself a little bit more!!!!

    PEACE. LOVE<3. UNITY. RESPECT.

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  • joejoejohnson

    You should send me a picture and i'll tell you lol. J/k I'm sure you look fine all those things are superficial and it doesn't matter what people think, it's what you think about yourself first. Boobs, its not everything some guys don't care about that like myself. A petite girl is also very attractive and some girls look good with short hair also. Even though you might have small boobs, you are probably very fit and this is attractive. Curvy isn't always better and like I said everyone likes different things. I find girls who are petite, slim, or curvy attractive. Keep your head up :)

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  • hotlilmama

    Wow, it's like I wrote this..
    I'm exactly the same way. My boobs are mainly what I compate to other girls. It's like damn why can't I have bigger boobs too. But I've realized guys are attracted to all sorts of women and I'm sure your gorgeous in your own unique way rather than than the stereotypicial way.

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  • Sidekickz

    If youre a guy... Not normal

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    *just *hot I have really got to start proof reading XD

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    I think women always do this whether or not its subcontious. We all have insecurities but simply stop being friends with her or finding fault in her is just wrong (unless she points it out or is a bitch about it) People are born differantly some prettier and some not, noone can help it. Its almost as if you want her to make herself ugly and gain weight kust so you can feel better about yourself but like any smart girl, she won't. Instead focuse your energy on making yourself feel beautiful :) I'm sure you are! Stare in the mirror an tell yourself that every morning, that your hor and your personality is what set you apartand above all the rest!

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  • Aleks85

    Yes and you better be hotter than all of them or you're not good enough.

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  • Women have it hard that way. A man gets fat and hes a fat man women get fat and they're ugly. Men get older and they're distinguished women get older they're old...i blame the media.

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