Is it normal for me to be worried at this point?
Alright, so I know its normal for your boyfriend to have friends that are girls,although jealousy still plays a huge factor, but texting another girl and lying to me about it gives me doubts and makes it seem pretty suspicious. My boyfriend attended college last semester and met a few people which caused us to talk less (long distance). I admit i was insanely jealous at first because of the fact that it was always just me he had his attention concentrated on, but i accepted the fact after awhile. This was until after a few months or so when he decided to show me pictures of a girl that he said liked him. I didnt freak out or anything i just wondered why he was even bringing her up to me almost like he was throwing it in my face. Then when i pointed out flaws about her like any jealous gf would, he defended her saying there was nothing wrong with her. She didnt come up for the rest of the semester after that and i was glad. He didnt return to college this semester although our relationship is still long distance. I recently found out that he has been texting her, and when i asked him if he texts other girls he said no and gave me a speech like im retarded for asking or something... Even though he does text her. What should i do am i right to be worried? I mean i wouldnt mind as much if it really was just a friend from college but after telling me she likes him ive got a few doubts...