Is it normal for me to be so shy around her?

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So i've been talking to this girl i've known since high school recently and i like her alot . We've been talking almost everyday for acouple months and i know she likes me but for some reason when were together I'm not 100% comfortable .

We've talked about sex and everything and she seems really open about it but i cant lie when im w. her its different . Im in my mind alot . Sometimes we smoke weed and it makes me really self conscious ive been trying to stop for a while but she likes to smoke ( i do too ) but i know its not helping . For example today when i went to her house we were having fun until we smoked then it was like awkward .

UGHHH ! not to mention were both 22 and i know she's more experienced than me which makes it worse because i havent had much sexual or intimate encounters at all . I just want to be able to touch her , hug her , kiss her , like i know she wants me to but i dont even know where to start . Im a really bottled up person and i dont show much emotion its been getting alittle better since ive cut back on smoking .

I just want to open up to her but idk how . I think she notices my shyness sometimes and she tries to make me feel comfortable but idk how to make a first move . i just want to get this annoying little burden off my back before i lose her . any suggestions ??

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    What bomb? :(

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    • TripleUp
      10 years ago

      The rejection bomb . Kinda sucks especially after writing something like this .

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago

    Just do it. If smoking doesn't help then do less or none at all. Be clear minded and focused and go in. Kiss her. That is simple, clear and affectionate. It implies romance aswell, while hugging can be somewhat misleading. It's like everything else, like learning to ride a bike, or auditioning for a part, you have to make that leap, if you don't you can't move forward, it's that simple. You may never feel ready, that feeling rarely exists in life it seems.

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    • TripleUp
      10 years ago

      thanks for the advice , im too late tho lol she dropped the bomb on me today *shrugs* any advice on finding some new women ?

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  • Larrybird
    10 years ago

    Damn the rejection bomb, luckily I've gone through many drills to avoid disaster in such a situation. You need to gather a small team of say, 60 people, go to her house and sing baby come back in a 60 man acapella. Then when she's not looking implant a v chip (V for vaginal) right in her va jj. This will make the subject extremely horny. Then What you wanna do is have sex with her and the v chip will move from her vagina into your urethra importing her memory files into yours. Problem solved.

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