Is it normal for me to be like this with girls?

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I'll probably sound like a douche saying this but I'm not trying To be . But basically I get hit on by a lot of girls and there always txting me and talkin to me on Facebook, I reply being very nice and it may sound like I'm flirting back but that's not my intentions. I don't want to date any of these chicks cause I like someone else but I feel like I may be leading them on to keep talking to me. I don't want them to think I like them tho and then hurt them cause I don't. I'm fine with talkin to them just not them being so flirty with me. Anyways IIN?

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Based on 62 votes (49 yes)
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  • fallingskyy
    12 years ago

    Don't be too nice, my guy has this problem with girls too >.<

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    Why don't you just tell them the truth? In the nicest way possible? You could explain to them that you didn't mean to send out the wrong message, but you're not interested past the line of friendship/acquaintances.

    And if it make you feel any better, you're not a douche for that. It sounds like you're just a real nice guy who has a problem letting girls down. Your intentions are good. You're just trying to avoid hard feelings.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with you, the girls just like you.... girls can be very attentive when they like someone. I'm glad you don't give them the wrong impression, just be a polite person and dont use any slang or phrases that could be misleading.... a girl can turn anything into something they want to hear - and their friends are the worst support group, always saying that oh, yeah, he definately likes you - even when they know you probably dont. You should watch that movie - He's just not that into you (if you can stand it lol ;)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Why did I get thumbs down? Fuck off.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Texting and facebook? Whoa dude. Calm down, girls can be chatterboxes don't worry. I do think that this is flirting but a very light form of it so you can calm down about that. If a girl approaches you tell her that you're not interested. Be clear, don't beat around the bush.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I get what you're saying dude. Girls flirt with me alot as well, I only encourage it in order to make them think they have a chance... I have a thing for "manipulation" you know? The power :P

    (I sincerely hope I didn't come across sounding like a douche)

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Was not my intention..

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