Is it normal for me to be in love with my best friend?

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Well, here it is. I've been friends with this kid for about a year now. And he's pretty attractive so when I first met him i was attracted to him on looks alone, I guess you can say I had an automatic crush. Well over the last year we've gotten Really close and I've actually fallen in love with him. He is the first thing I think of when I wake up and the last thing I think of before I go to bed. I was getting vibes that he kinda felt the same way so I told him I liked him and he said he doesn't want to ruin our friendship. I accepted that and tried to move on, but no I was completely infatuated with him. I've brought up my feelings so many times and I've basically been shot down so many times...I can't just get him out of my life all together because he is after all my best friend. How do I get over him? What should I do?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    If i had a quid for every question that was posted like this i would be a rich man.

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  • Cymbalism
    8 years ago

    It sounds like he just wants to remain friends. He really doesn't like you as strongly as you like him. It's a very unfortunate situation but it happens. I don't think there's any hope for a relationship with him; if there was, it would have happened by now. You'll just have to learn to love him as a friend, and eventually your intense feelings will fade off. You won't be hopelessly in love forever, don't worry. :)

    You probably don't want to mention your feelings to him very often, either. It's an awkward situation for both of you, but you'll probably end up annoying him if you keep mentioning it. It sounds like you have a good friendship with him, so you probably want to preserve that the best you can.

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  • mlbryan44
    9 years ago

    Suck him off and swallow his cum. Its a win win situation.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Whatever you do, stop bringing up your feelings with him. Doing that repeatedly is pushy.

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  • EmiAnnMo
    11 years ago

    I got the same problem hun

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  • picc03
    11 years ago

    Well no we're not best friends because I fell for him. We've been best friends for years and I recently got feelings for him. There is absolutely no way I could just erase him from my life. We literally see each other every day and tell each other everything. Saying goodbye is impossible.

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  • Golemgod
    11 years ago

    It's really ok to love ur bestie but I aggre with maddog just don't take it over board, but straight out asking him out might work.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    It's ok to have a crush on him,but don't go overboard about it.He/she may not have feelings as strong as yours,and in the end you'll wind up driving him away,friendship and otherwise.

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  • CarsGirlsGunsMoneyMade
    11 years ago

    You'd do best to separate yourself from him all together. If you guys are best friends because YOU fell for him, I don't think it'll work. Sorry, but it's true.

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