Is it normal for me to be excluded?

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I am a person with bad anxiety issues that have stemmed from years of bullying, hatefulness, and bad luck. I don't think I'm a bad person, and I'm relatively nice but for some reason I always get excluded from social events. Is this normal? What have I done wrong? What can I do to fix it?

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Based on 41 votes (25 yes)
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  • psm45
    12 years ago

    I have major anxiety issues as well and I feel like I don't belong anywhere I go. But I honesty thing its just my screwed up perception....just keep being your kind loving self Is what I suggest

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  • dinz
    12 years ago

    Maybe if you learn to rise that low self esteem up and gain come confident you should be fine.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    yes i agree with gena its probly not you at all :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'm sorry that happens to you /: But it's the same with me. You probably just aren't hanging out with the right people. You should try and make some new friends. Good luck! (:

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  • kerofromearth
    11 years ago

    Maybe you're acting differently because of what you've gone through, but don't notice? Probably it's not you at all, but the possibility is there.

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  • imacomputer
    12 years ago

    I'm learning myself these days, that almost all of my perceptions of what other people think about me are really just what I think of myself!

    I think you might be in the same boat as me.

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