Is it normal for me to be attracted to him?

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I'm 18, he's 30. I'm an unsignificant receptionist at the clinic where he works as doctor. He's cold and distant to me when we're alone, but super friendly when we are with co-workers. Maybe he's shy or whatever, I don't know. Is it normal for me to take interest in a man that acts like this or do I have some daddy-issues I should solve before the ghost of Freud starts hunting me?

And if it is normal, should I show him my feelings and maybe crack his shell open? Or am I just being mental and obsessive about this?

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I'm 20 and I've been attracted to guys that age. It doesn't necessarily mean you have daddy issues, or that you're after him b/c he's a doctor, who obviously is pulling in the big bucks. It could just be the simple fact that you have a little crush. It happens.

    And he might be acting the way he's acting because you both are at work, and he might notice that you're quite young. One wrong move on his part, could risk him losing his job... well, maybe not that extreme, but... the age difference might be why he's acting so distant. Other coworkers could talk.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I think you're attracted to his wealth and success, gold digger.

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  • ICeicebaby7492
    12 years ago

    IF he's not married and has no kids and ur out of highschool go for it

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  • Tiddy
    12 years ago

    It's hard t say, but I guess it's the position and the money he earn that attract u more. Im not saying that u are eyeing on his wealth. But it's normal for pp to go thru these stage, u should spend longer time t think if u are really interested in him or jus a fantasy, if not, once u express wad u are feeling now to him, things will get awkward if he don feel the same way to u.

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  • SoccerStud88
    12 years ago

    fact: women are naturally attracted to status.

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