Is it normal for me not wanting to be called a bitch?

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I have me in a relationship for two years now. He is 53 and I'm 44. My boyfriend has a lot of issues. He calls me a bitch because I stand up for myself. He accuses me of being with someone else, he is smothering this has been going on every since I have met him. And he is upset that I'm not affectionate enough. I just can't get the way he treated me out of my head. I want to be affectionate but the damage has already been done. I tried telling him the reason why I hate the word bitch so much is because when I was 12 years old I was being called a bitch while I was getting raped by a man my mother knew. I have flash backs and every time my boyfriend calls me a bitch I see that man's face on my boyfriend's shoulders. He started off this relationship disrespecting me.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Why would you spend one day with someone who disrespects you so? One would hope that by 44 you had learned that much about what makes a good life, or do you enjoy being abused?

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  • Cymbalism
    8 years ago

    Your boyfriend sounds terrible. Why are you with him at all, exactly?

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    This has been going on ever sense you met him and you still went out with him? I was going to say he's a dick, but you should have been smarter than that.

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