Is it normal for me not to want sex and im an 18 yo male ???

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Well before you think im weird there is a story behind this. My ex girlfriend was evil we went out for a while and well we had sex it was my first and it was not intentional but that is a whole other story anyways she lied to me about being a virgin and was only trying to get pregnant horrible right not to mention the cheating well I have been with this incredible girl for over a year now without having sex and one day it just happened it was incredible cosmic even like stars align all is right with the world good however I could not help but feel awful after and just felt dirty like I let her down not in performance but in various other ways just the way I felt after kind of makes me not want to do it again let me remind you I am an 18 year old male she wants me to have sex with her often which is ok I love her and being with her was like a religious experience and im an atheist I just dont know how to explain this to her and I truly dont want to but is the way I feel about all of this normal?

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  • dodongos
    11 years ago

    But also, This is normal. I've actually had basically the same experience with my ex-girlfriend. Only what she did was just start the whole relationship purely for sex. It's fucking disgusting to me. But because of that experience, I don't want sex ever. It all seems so superficial and animalistic.

    Don't worry about it man. Just do something else with your time.

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    That first bitch ruined you..you need therapy to overcome that i guess

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    It is not normal, but I do understand how you feel. Being hurt and betrayed like that can ruin something great.

    What you need to do is look at yourself, and realize that she is the bad person, not you. And that sex is not bad, it is in fact quite good when it is with somebody you trust (i.e. your current girlfrend) She sounds like a great girl, and in a way, she is being punished/held accountable for the mistakes of your ex.

    Sex is a great thing, and it can lead to you feeling even closer to your girlfriend, just remember sex is not bad, and neither are you. Don't let your bitch ex have power over you!

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    • jwhit
      11 years ago

      what so great about it sex ruins the relationship now a days people just want sex what happened to spiritually being close plus its the best way not to have stupid kids

      if you dont want sex u may be asexual and theirs nothing wrong with that

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        woa woa woa dont get me wrong shes fucking beautiful Im in love with this girl and I want sex I just need to get over the way I feel after and we waited a year and a half before it happened the whole kids thing well I am 18 I dont want children at all but really sex is not a big deal to me in relationships I could wait forever for someone that I care about I guess im just a weird guy like that but this girl is really great and a truly beautiful person in every way honestly im just fucked up

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