Is it normal for me being bisexual?

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For a while I've masturbated to guys (although not even being really conscious of wanting to date them which I still don't want to...the thought disgusts me and puts me in the uncomfortable place and I'm really only attracted to how the guy looks physically, I could care less emotions outside of friendship and doing just to have fun.) and sometime in the last few months I questioned my sexuality. After loads and tons of confusion, I've been finding woman more physically attractive and thinking about them more. I've never wanted to actually date a guy. More like friends with benefits, but lately my attractions has numbed down a bit towards them. I like the idea of being with women (sex, friendship, relationship and all) but a part of me doesn't want to lose sight of guys too...(friends) Is this normal? I kinda wanna be a sexual deviant...
Also I'm not really that much of a fan of dick. I just like the guy looks...maybes this is a fetish...And you know I've never really had a strong desired male or female genitals...its kinda like, if I'm put in that situation there a chance I'll do it. Though I'd deny doing some things with guys though I would do anything a woman wanted me to do to/for her.

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  • Keo
    12 years ago

    Exactly how it went for me, too haha. :)

    Around 12 or 14, I started to be sexually aroused and attracted to women in addition to men, and later on, got crushes on some. I was always afraid to tell them, except this one girl who was bi too.

    It's normal. No matter what homophobes tell you, don't be afraid or ashamed of who you are!

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    • honshuuwolf
      12 years ago

      Oh my god! You're a female version of me!! :D
      It happened EXACTLY like that.

      I think it's got something to do with progressively advancing past the unconscious repression of "gay urges". First it starts out with sexual attraction, which slowly advances to more personal attraction.

      I remember only being aroused by SOME guys in a highly sexualised context, then noticing I was looking at a lot of guys with more clothes on XD but still mostly for sex appeal... eventually it got to the stage where I had a few guy crushes and now I'm about 2 months away from the 2nd anniversary of when me and my boyfriend started our wonderful relationship! :D

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  • Yumazing
    12 years ago

    A ton of people are like that.

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  • pancakegirl
    12 years ago

    That's how I am too!!!

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  • peterrabbyt69
    7 years ago

    Hey, some guys are just born to suck dick.

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