Is it normal for me and my boyfriend to both watch porn

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months and we're both 19, i used to watch alot of porn, and he used to watch it too, but we made an agreement near the beginning of the relationship to both not watch porn anymore. Cut to a few days ago, i looked at his history and saw tons and tons of porn he'd been watching. I actually secretly watched porn behind his back too, so I was upset but knew I couldn't be too upset about it. He told me 10 times out of 10 he'd lie about porn because its really vulnerable to admit and so we both just came to an agreement to let ourselves watch porn. I watched it today and it was awesome but now that I know he watches it it's kinda ruined it for me. I still feel weird about it but I know we'd both secretly watch it again if we made another promise. Should I just be alright with both of watching it?

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  • It's never done anything for me, but I always thought it's more a man thing, but I know there are women out there that are into it. You just got to do what is right for you, if you both like it, enjoy it together. Provided the actresses and actors in it were there of their own free will it's not hurting anyone. Life is for living and enjoying so why put in unnecessary barriers.

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  • Bilover91

    Porn is great. Even better when your girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever may be the occasion of watching porn with someone

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Everyone watches it, it's not normal that you tried making that promise in the first place. And it's also not normal that knowing that he watches porn spoils it for you.

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  • Iszzy123

    Why not try to match the porn make it a nice challenge

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  • nikkiclaire

    Watch it together. It's silly to make rules in relationships that can't be followed, so learn to enjoy it with him, then be the porstar for him 😊

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