Is it normal for it to still hurt?

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I like to label so bare with me (:

The Backround info:
Im now 18 and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now we were both eachothers 'first.' I know its normal for it to hurt the very first time which it did and it took about a month after the first time for it to actually start feeling good. Oh, we do it every single day except for those few days each month, but for these last couple of months its been hurting every single time we do it.

No cheating=No infections!
Neither of us has cheated, so i know its not any sort of STD, we have a very honest relationship and we are both very in love with eachother; We see eachother all day every day, we have talked about cheating and decided it is not exceptable EVER, so if one of us does not feel the same for the other anymore we would break up, not to mention we both keep a close eye on eachother when we're apart.

Back to the problem:
Now every single time we do it it just hurts during and after like a B*tch! Feels like the very first time EVERY single time, which sucks cus i love sex. It especially hurts after i get off my period. I've heard that after a girl stops having sex for a while it pretty much closes up again, but is it possible to close up withing only 5-6days? I try to go on top most of the time because it hurts less and it does feel good at the beginning its towards the end when it starts to hurt. Its not a very long lasting pain though, like the pain doesn't go into the next day or anything, only for a few hours. He says i still feel pretty tight,even after 6 months of straight sex, which sounds pretty awesome for him but i would like to have seconds or even thirds but i cant because it hurts right after the firs & im kind of scared to go to the doctor. Im pretty sure it is not normal but im wondering if anyone has had this problem and/or any possible solutions..HELP!!!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    to be honest when you say "still hurt" I wasn't thinking cheating. I was rather thinking that you're going too fast. ... in several ways really

    1) Female reproductive system doesn't actually FINISH developing until a woman's in her mid-20s. Your canal might not be at it's full adult size yet.

    2) Many young women tend to engage in penetration before their bodies are fully ready / aroused. They think that "OK we've played enough, I guess it's time to penetrate" even if their bodies aren't fully aroused. When a woman is fully aroused her vaginal canal will actually "tent" and widen - which allows for easier penetration.

    And quite frankly having daily sex when it's hurting... perhaps you should reconsider WHY you're having sex in the first place.

    And yes, when a woman doesn't have sex her canal will shrink a little but it takes longer than one week for this to happen.

    I'm thinking you may want to consider the following:
    A) foreplay. not just a little but until you can't stand not doing more.
    B) hit the adult store for lubricants. sometimes your body needs a little help anyway

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    • dude_Jones
      11 years ago

      "B) hit the adult store for lubricants."

      Hell, hit the drug store. It's called Astroglide.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    I'd see a doctor, that doesn't sound like it would be good.

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    • quentari
      11 years ago

      And it only closes up if you don't have sex for YEARS or occasionally when the hymen wasn't fully broken the first time and they don't have sex again for a week or two

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Lubricunts work wonders but I think you should consult a physician.

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