Is it normal for it to hurt when you get fingered?

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Today my boyfriend came over & he fingered me & we did other stuff but it really hurt at times and then others I couldn't feel a thing.
This is the first time it's ever happened to me so I didn't know what to expect (I've also never fingered myself & I've only worn a tampon twice)
But when he tried putting two in it really hurt. Is it supposed to hurt?
Also is it normal to not get an orgasm & stuff because to me it's not like it felt really good like I thought it would, it was just kind of different :L

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It shouldn't hurt, no, but it will hurt if he's not that experienced and doesn't know what hurts and what doesn't. For both your sakes, you have to tell him when it's hurting (and when it feels good). From personal experience, women I've been with have had an orgasm quicker without any fingers being inside them at all.

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  • SDDA
    11 years ago

    You probably weren't ready for two fingers yet. It might take a few more times to get there, depending on the size of his fingers. You can even try with your fingers first if they are smaller, to help yourself get used to it. Also, it could have hurt because you weren't turned on enough. He may need to go slower, feel around before putting his finger in. Guys usually want to go straight into the action where girls need that slow tension foreplay provides.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    it sounds like you may also be a virgin which may make penetration more painful.

    if you don't like it you don't have to do it, not until you're emotionally ready

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