Is it normal for him to text me these messages then never see me?!
I met this guy out clubbing, brought him back. We didnt have sex but he stayed over and we massively hit it off, not on a superficial level but just genuinely liked each other alot, made eachother laugh etc. Kept banging our teeth together kissing cuz we couldnt stop smiling kind of thing. He told me hes slept with alot of girls but they usually dont get on, and that he really liked me and wanted to see me again. The thing is, he was just visiting friends for the weekend (I'm at uni, hes at a different one). So after that we started texting each other, like loads of messages a day about all kinds of things, some of them text sex, most of them not, and he came down to see me again a few weeks later.
We had a really great time, slept together alot, he left, we kept texting all day, everything normal. Then, at the point where he was sposed to come down and see me again, he had exams and also ran out of money, as most people do before xmas holidays and then it was the holidays (he lives even further away at when im at home) and now we havent seen each other for 2 months and its just weird! It feels like it's been so long that we're back at square one. He still texts me but since uni has resumed not half so much, mainly when he's drunk or he'll sext me, but to be honest I don't even know why he bothers doing that if hes not going to see me.
He lives about an hour and a half away on the train, and I'm pretty unimpressed that he hasnt made the effort to visit me since uni has started again. But he is a very popular busy kind of guy, and the initial connection which we shared was 100 percent genuine and a bit special (as evidenced by the fact that he bothered texting me day in day out for 2 months when we didnt see each other, considering the kind of guy he is). What on earth is going through his mind? And is it normal for him to keep contacting me and still clearly be attracted to me but not to come see me? Please comment, this is doing my head in!