Is it normal for him to tell you to...

He sounds a little controlling..first date and already telling you how to wear your clothes? I would just not bother going on another date with him. You shouldn't have to worry bout him "approving" your choice of clothes. Find someone els! Plenty of boys out there ;-)

at least he showed his true colors so soon instead of way on down the line

Damn guys!! If he is being respectful and trying to tell her that she is showing to much that he doesn't want to see yet then he's a keeper!

I agree with bittersweet, I mean c'mon! You guys aren't even going out and he's already controlling you? Yeah, I say you probably shouldnt see him any longer, he sounds like if you were to stay with him he'll be an abusive boyfriend. Save yourself some trouble and don't see him again.

Ditch him- and quick. If he doesn't like the way you dress, he can find someone who dresses differently. AND I can't believe his friends had the nerve to say something- how disrespectful! And the fact that your man didn't tell them off for basically letting you know they were staring at your tits and liking it is messed up. If you're showing, men will look, but they can keep it to themselves.

Screw that guy (I mean, get rid of him, not uh...). How dare he control you? I'm sure he was trying to be protective (guys look for other guys looking at their dates' tatas), but come one. My bf tells me to pull my shirt up sometimes or pants, but we've been together for 4 years.

why are u going out with him again!! if hes that controlling on the 1st date what do u expect him 2 be like when ur in a real relationship itll only get worse!!!

Sounds like a protective guy

He is over protective. I would recomend not dating him, because over protective guys are more likely to abuse women.

He's probably just looking for a nice girl that doesn't show off her body.. What's wrong with that? That's hard to find nowadays!?!?

Maybe he doesn't want to date a girl that dresses like a whore. Just saying

It does sound a little controlling, I mean sometimes when im out a bar or something my boyfriend will reach over and pull my shirt up a bit, and then smile or hug me. I know he doesnt want other guy's seeing down my top haha. But i mean first date and telling you to.... and then arguing about it... and then you being paranoid about what to wear to avoid a conversation with this man. too much work for two dates!

Arguing on the second date. Can't imagine after a year. It sure would make a good Opal Windfury Episode.

He can't tell you what to wear or how to wear it unless he buys it for you or you're visiting his family.

He wounds really controlling, I wouldn't go there if I were you

Mormon?

+ 2 bittersweet

Why would he tell you to pull up your shirt if you were showing too much?