Is it normal for him to refuse to touch me?
I've hooked up with this guy a few times....he is insanely sexy (to me anyway) and we have good chemistry. However...well, he won't touch me. In any way. He is admittedly very selfish, but don't even selfish guys put a LITTLE effort into foreplay, even just to get the job done? He's very, very kinky and is always requesting very specific kind of freaky stuff...but he won't do anything in return. It's a demand, not a request. I don't think he finds me repulsive...I'm nor the hottest girl in the world bit I'm okay looking. And HE is the one who initiated the sexual stuff. If it wasn't for that I would think he was gay...he loves...anal play and he seems to have very little interest in regular sex. Also, he won't consider my preferences. If he wants to fuck my ass on the kitchen table with a video camera and all the neighbors crowded around the windows watching, that's what he wants and there is no compromise. If I object, it's, "Okay then, leave."
Wtf? This can't be normal. Idk why I am even doing this...
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