Is it normal for him to randomly stop talking to me?

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I have been talking to this guy for about three weeks, well he had to leave to go overseas. He said he would keep contact with me through phone and email. He just randomly stops talking to me and I don't know why. He acted like he liked me a lot and seemed sincere. I do not know what I could have done. Its been about a week since I've talked to him. I asked him through text why does he stop talking to me he said he was sorry hes busy. I understand that and everything, but I dont understand how he could really not have any time AT ALL to talk to me?? Hes suppose to already be overseas now. Is this normal? And does this mean that I should just move on? He even made me his girlfriend so I do not understand.

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  • Nofxch1ck
    10 years ago

    Yes move on. I think he already has or he wouldn't treat u like this.

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      You are right.

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  • KaffeInjection
    10 years ago

    I'm afraid.. That.. It means.. That he.. Is not interested anymore. I'm so sorry, been there myself.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    I too, know what being too busy feels like, but even so, I still manage to find little time to at least contact my family.
    So it's understandable that he's very busy, but questionable how much he likes you if he hasn't even put aside 5 minutes for you in a whole week.

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      Yeah, its going on three weeks now. Hes in the military but still. fuck all this bs. you can't possibly be THAT busy!

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  • ants91shearer
    10 years ago

    this is called missionaccomplishedpussybeater

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    • beeee
      10 years ago

      we never fucked by the way!

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  • broken_angel
    10 years ago

    i did someting that to a guy i got my number changed deleted him off facebook lost his number and never got ahold of him again then i found out he was 20 sum years older then me

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    What do you expect.

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  • willyma
    10 years ago

    i spoke to this girl allot for about 2 months. our convos on the phone lasted for hours. And she seemed to really like me (same with me to her). I met her at the mall. and we really clicked.

    however whenever i asked her to meet up. she would make some bullshit excuse (like shes busy or exams).. i still don't know if she was giving me the slip, however i ended contact with her to save face (and my pride)..

    maybe i did the wrong thing (and should of built up more trust).. but if she really cared, she would of called or texted. or i would of respected a rejection instead of some 'spare my feelings' crap

    Falling for a girl can either make you feel like the greatest ROCKSTAR. or a complete fucking tool. When a guy feels like a tool. he will bail..

    have you done anything wrong with him??

    Thats just my perspective. maybe a female's adivce is better.. but you should call

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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    Even though one week sounds very short, I agree that he could have contacted you at least once. I personally don't like it when people play games like that. Just straight ask if the reason he isn't talking is because he isn't interested anymore and if he is interested, make sure he makes a convincing effort to do that.

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