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My boyfriend doesn't last very long in bed. At first it was fine but this last time...he thrusted like 6 times. I love my boyfriend more than anything but I don't know that I could live with that every time
It sounds like he's young and needs to learn about foreplay.
There's no reason a man can't play with his girlfriend's body and stroke or lick her to orgasm before penetrating her.
If he cares about your pleasure he will make an effort to learn.
If he doesn't then... well you know what you are then - you're a human fleshlight
Foreplay is a good idea, but it's going to do nothing to actually make him last longer. If it takes him six pumps to cum without foreplay, it might only take him three pumps after half an hour of foreplay.
What he needs to do is take matters into his own hands, literally! The best way for him to build his endurance is to masturbate regularly. And, he shouldn't be in a hurry when he does it, either. You may think I'm crazy, but playing with himself will give him some much-needed experience and will get him to be more in-tune with his own body.
Another thing that might help you is to decrease his down time after he does have an orgasm. Something most women don't seem to know is that a man's penis gets really sensitive after he has an orgams and it takes some of them a long time to recover. One way to decrease that recovery time is a simple, routine exercise to strengthen the muscles and he can do it anytime and anywhere. Any time of the day, all he has to do is flex his spincter and release it 10 or so times in a row several times a day.
If you really want to get involved, just jerk him off when he gets a hard-on. When he looks like he's going to cum, slow it down. You might even need to stop a few times. If he cums, just wait until he gets hard again. I bet he'll last a lot longer than six pumps the second time around. I'm sure he'll develop some endurance in no time, and you'll get to have all that fun teasing him and increasing both of your enjoyment.
If you want to make him feel like a stud, act like you're fascinated by the whole process and tell him you're flattered that he's so turned on by you that he cums so fast.
He could take care of you with his tongue first...with time and experience, he should start lasting longer.