Is it normal for him to not text me everyday?

I've been talking to this guy for about a month now. It started off as me saying "hi" to him on facebook which resulted in a long stream of comments. This eventually led to facebook messages and now texting.

We had been talking everyday up until this point and now i've not heard from him in two days. It's usually pretty even on who texts who first, but i feel annoying texting him first.

Last time we talked he seemed very keen, flirted with me and talked about how he wouldn't complain one bit about hanging out with me, and just cute flirting mostly.

I understand we aren't dating and we're just "talking," but it worries me a bit if i'm used to him talking to me everyday and then he goes quiet.

He's done this a few times when we we're messaging each other on facebook where he'd go a day without talking after the newness wore off.

Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this?

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Based on 117 votes (103 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • KaffeInjection

    1. He is either waiting for you to Message him... Because only you starting the conversation can make him feel like you really care.... Or?... Well can be.

    2. Because he is not interested in you.

    3. He doesn't give a fuck & drink beers while smoking pot.

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  • Corleone

    Seriously? Because he didn't text you for a day?
    Quit being so needy. It's a lot more fun to talk in real life only once in a while, than texting someone every day.

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  • XxKatiexX

    yes it is

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  • VioletTrees

    Chill. Some people don't text that much.

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  • Avant-Garde

    He probably needs his space. There's no need to freak out about it.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    Yes, we all need space. We aren't always free to text our friends/the people we like.
    You could also try to play hard to get.

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  • EndlessSuffering

    Give the guy some space.

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  • Why the hell don't you meet?!. Internet relationships are toxic and you are never certain what your partner is feeling or doing

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    • teaforone

      we've been trying to plan it on a day where we're both off, but so far it's not really worked out.

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  • dontgiveup:)

    Just relax, and if you really feel the need to talk to him, than YOU text him or call him. Maybe he feels like you feel, like he's being annoying. And remember; guys don't like clingy girls...

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  • DreamsVI

    It is. I'm kind of in that phase with my ex. Me and him are actually great friends, we ended on a mutual status, we're completely cool and we text each other EVERYDAY. We do run out of things to say sometimes we do run out of things to say, but we never don't text each other. One day though, it might get like that. He'll always be my best friend, but I don't think he can tolerate me every day for the rest of our life. I don't think we'll drift apart,necessarily, but I think it'll get to the point where, "I'm busy X thru X, I'll call you on Y from A:00-B:00".

    And I'm sorry for going off about myself, but as for you, maybe he'd like you to make the first move? Text him only... every other day, let's say. Show interest, but kind of make him chase you, you know? Text him one day, not the next, and then he'll text you?

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  • spazatikal

    Take a deep breath, and just know that just because he isn't texting you every single day doesn't necessarily mean he isn't into you. Maybe HE feels annoying, maybe he doesn't want YOU to get freaked out about him talking to you every day. Maybe he's just being respectable to you and your space. I'd day just get him talk to you whenever he decides to, don't go all crazy-lady 'I need to hear from you 24/7' on him. Relax, you guys are exploring each other at the moment, flux and flow, give and take, intake and exhale...you get the picture. :)

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  • I know I have posted a few things about my bf and his mom. Well I'm just being honest..I do not want a relationship with my bfs mom. In the past 5 months, the relatonship seems like it's being forced and slightly fake. I do not want to hurt her feelings by just saying it because when I have told her my feelings about how she treat me, she seem as if it flew over her head and honestly, some things just do not need to be said. I'm tired of feeling like I'm competing with her for the affectionate and time with my bf(her son.) I found it easier so far really relaxing and less stress not speaking to her or having to be pushed around by her or seeing my bf being suckered into things by her. I've been home now for two months bc I stayed their cor college. Me and her are definitely not on speaking terms because of an inccident that happened right before the day I was going home for the summer. She was ease dropping on my convo that I was having with my mom *to point out, in her home, there's no privacy, she is always budding her nose in things that do no concern her* Anyway she busted into the room saying that I need to get out of the relationship with her son of i'm not happy, she was really bi***y. My mom was like umm what was that about and i'm like I'll call you back mom. His mom slammed the door and tried to call my bf at his job but she didnt have the extension number plus he was calling my phone so i answered it and she overtalked me telling her son that she never get in our business but u done alot for this girl and thought u need to know that she isn't happy and i told her that she need to get out of the relationship, i told her do not disrespect me and I won't disrespect u. She then called me a lier saying that i was talking to her other sons gf about him lol it was so funny bc i just told his mom that i talked to her a few hours ago to see if she wanted to hang out. His mom overly exaggerates and is always trying to plee to her son that she is being the best mom that she can be and that she is doing everything for me and her other sons gf. A little history before I came into the picture..her other sons gf and her didn't get along to the point where she wanted to always control her sons and exclude the gfs by doing their laundry and wearing their underwear, take money from their wallets,..the list goes on. The other sons gf told me that she had to leave the home also because she couldn't take it watching their mom do all of those things and gossip then lie about it. I told her that I guess I won't be any different. So pretty much the mom talked about her other sons gf to her neice about how her parents are drunks and that's why she is a drunk(the gf) Her son(not my bf) called her and demanded that she apologized to his gf, then the mom started the whole crying thing like someone hurt her feelings. So the gf hasn't been back since because it has been more than that occasion that th mom has gossiped about her. Now again, I do not want a relationship with her because of my experiences with her and knowing that she has done that to her other sons gf and they've been together for 4 years..she isn't going to change. I've taken myself out of the circle and keeping the distance because I shoudln't have to deal with her ways especially if she think she's entitled to acting that way and we as gfs aren't suppose to call her out on it..bull crap.

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