Is it normal for him to not call me his gf?
What's the big deal nowadays with guys hesitating to call the girl they've been seeing for a while and supposedly only her, their Gf? Of course every one is different and every guy or at least every mature guy has their own way of getting into a relationship. I noticed that guys take it even more seriously than girls that the guy doesn't just jump into a relationship. Like my guy.
He's a serious guy when it comes to relationships but we have been talking and seeing eachother for more than a year and I feel like okay dude what's ur deal? Our last argument was very emotional and he had told me that I'm his girl and asked does it make a big difference to me to call me his Gf? I was like yes, why don't u wanna call me ur Gf anyways? If its not a big difference for you then say I'm ur Gf. He wouldnt after finally he had it and just said "okay ur my girl, ur my gf!" I wasn't sure how to take it but knowing him, it took a lot of effort for him to say it AND he wnt just say things just to say it and not mean it. However, after a while, it just seemed like he was acting no different. Is it cause he has considered me his Gf all along so I shouldn't expect his attitude to change? Or he really didn't mean it when he said I was his Gf? That's hard to believe cause of how like I said he doesn't just say things without meaning it.
Any who, what is the big deal? The reason why he wasn't committing to me was cause he has his own life to figure out first but I told him I'm with him n his journey as long as Im his and he's mine. If he's planning to be with me in the future and he knows I feel the same way why wait? But for him, he's so hesitant and shady. It's like his own way of presenting himself. He might cobsider me his Gf but maybe to himself he's still not ready to for example, make it "fb official" and show me on social media. That's a big one cause he doesn't AND why ? He has his own insecurity issues and then he wonders why I nag so much if were official or not. I asked him "so u want to look like a free man and single?" He goes "no IDC about looking single or not I don't have time for girls...ur my only girl..stop thinking I'm this player that I'm not." I wanna say okay but he has his shady ass moments where he thinks he's being smart n won't get caught but I always confront him bout them and he has the lamest responses. Wth is the deal?