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Ok so me and my boyfriend r having sex and we both love it it was a great relief and all of a sudden I get on top and he goes soft. I think it was because I had trouble keeping it in..this has never happened is it normal? Is it me?
erections are picky things. A mouse squeaking in the next room can make it go away. It was probably just the change in position.
Is your timing off? Start out slow and ride him harder and faster as passion increases. Encourage him too stimulate you and don't be afraid to talk dirty and to use your hands. If you feel him going limp, quickly hop off and give him oral until he is rock hard again.... then repeat. If all else fails then finish off with a blow job.. or put it somewhere else. Works every time :D P.S. Lean slightly against the way his member naturally wants to go and remember to arch your back :) Or..... spin around, grab his ankles and bounce hard. Switch it up. It makes sex all the more fun!
I once read somewhere that for people with bad circulation sometimes keeping an erection when they lie on there back and it points upwards can be difficult.
In my experience, girls aren't great at getting the right angle or motion when on top without the guy doing some / all of the work pounding upwards.
If his dick kept falling out it could be frustrating for him and possibly kill the mood? Or it's just that the position doesn't work for him (doesn't create enough friction for his penis to stay hard)? Or it may not have been his night?
If it has never happened before, then it might never happen again. It's not worth worrying about, and especially not worth bringing up with him (men are sensitive about erectile disfunction / going soft, whatever the reason).