Is it normal for him to finger me while i am asleep?

He sexually assualted you

Basically, he was trying to fulfill some fantasy where you wake up horny from his touching, and proceed to have sex with him immediately after waking.

It's a typical fantasy, but not for everyone. What he did was a violation of your body, because he didn't talk about it with you beforehand to see if you were into that sort of thing.

Since you've been dating him for a reasonable amount of time, I suggest you have a talk with him about it, get your feelings out; then see what other fantasies he may have and disuss them.

Now it's your turn. Wait until he is asleep and stick a hairbrush (either end) up his anus and see if he gets aroused by that.

This is sexual assault, explicitly inexcusable since you felt both violated and scared. Get away from him before he inevitably starts trying some form of emotional abuse. Feel free to press charges.
Yes, he may well be living out a fantasy that isn't about violating you, and how he made you feel may have been unintentional. But he blatantly ignored the likely probability that you would feel this way, in favor of his own stupid fantasy. Don't put up with whatever excuses and defenses he or his family might throw at you, they're insulting.

Tell him that he is an idiot, if he wants to arouse you and have sex, he should initiate things by softly licking and nibbling your clit whilst gently massaging your Boobs...fingering somebody that is asleep is paramount to Rape!

It's called abuse.

The best thing to do is to sit down with him and talk about that. If you don't like it, then you should just simply say that you want him to stop doing it.

You've been with him for 2 years. According to you, had a fair amount of sex, so fingering you in your sleep is something you should expect from some of your boyfriends , or even your husband, if you get married.

I'm sure you've thought about [maybe did it] giving him a handjob or a blowjob while your bf was sleeping.

You better avoid him if he really makes you feel bad.

Your boyfriend is a piece of shit with the soul of a rapist. Dump him!

If you freely share a bed with him you should expect him to get horny and play with your body at least it was only his fingers could have been his erect penis

Hi.

Not normal. I would never do something like that. I can imagine it being painful to you.

Also very rude. To wake you up only to annoy you. What is he think he is doing ?

Very inconsiderate. Tell him off and if he insists then time to move on because it would mean he cares less about you

Does he finger your poop chute when you are sleeping and put your shit on his cock and ram his cock down your throat to wake you up ?

Well for example in full clothed in the kitchen husband walks in slaps my ass and given my boobs a squeeze that's affection not sexual assault or has perceptions changed

Now I'm getting confused so in bed with boyfriend / husband you /me our asleep partner gets horny wants sex so starts playing with my ur pussy.I .u wake up I wouldn't be felling violated I would want to join in nigh be a bit grump for disturbing my sleep but would never considered being sexually assaulted

Tell him to start with your clit instead.