Is it normal for him to do this?

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There's this boy who I met two years ago. We had a thing for each other, and this one time he kissed me. A few days later he asked me out. I really did like him, but I said no because I had just broke up with my boyfriend and I was worried it was a fall-back crush.
After that we were just friends, but then he started ignoring me and being really rude to me. I thought it was just because I had said no so I apologized. He said it wasn't me. Then he started to date 14 year olds. ( we were 18 ) He wouldn't speak to me and then just stopped hanging out with all of us.
Then about six months later he sent me a message saying he was so sorry that he was rude and that he used me. He wanted to give us another try. I agreed, but every time we would go to hang out he'd ditch. When we finally did, he wanted to hang out longer but I had made plans. He drove me home in silence and after I got out he texted me and accused me of sleeping with my best friend and he was sorry he wasn't good enough for me. I told him nothing was going on but he just went cold all over again.
He started back up with the 14 year olds and it's back the same as it was before. I'm finally dating the boy of my dreams, and now this kid is trying to come back into my life. I'm friends with his best friend and he told me that all _____ could talk about was how much he missed me and that he wants to try again. I asked him why _____ wouldn't just leave me alone, and he said I'm the first girl ever to refuse him and that he thinks _____ is secretly in love with me and he hates it. He also told _____ that I was in a relationship and that I was happy and to leave me alone. His response: " that's ok. I'll just make her fall for me. That asshole who has her couldn't treat her half as right as I could."
I don't respond to any messages he sends and I refuse to hang out with him but he wont leave me alone! Is this normal for a 19 year old boy to be doing?
Also please leave comments! I don't know what to do....

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  • picflirt
    12 years ago

    Nope, not normal. Jellytot hit it on the head with the he'll MAKE you fall for him. Uhh - that indicates serious control issues, and so does his dating of 14 year olds. 14's dating 18-19's gives him control, manipuability (sp?) and so on. NOT a good thing. Steer clear of him. Its hard to say to a friend, but he'd just be trouble, and you'd end up hurt emotionally or physically. Relationships aren't contests, conquests, or challenges.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    No not normal. First of all he could get done for paedophilia and secondly he sounds psychopathic. He'll MAKE you fall for him? I'd watch that one. Especially as he only wants to do it because you were the only one who said no. He sounds like the sort of guy who might kidnap or hurt you one day. He also says - via his friend - that he THINKS he loves you. Well he would KNOW if he did. This is another sign of someone who is trying to do the "norm" things and fit into society. It sounds like he has some sort of mental disorder such as psychopathic or sociopathic tendencies.

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