Is it normal for him to act this way towards me?

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A few weeks ago I met this boy well he's 7 years older than me and I'm 18. I met him at the pub but I already knew him because he lives 2 doors away from me, but we were at the pub at the same time and we got talking. I added him on Facebook when I got home and he gave me his number, we have spoke every day for the past few weeks and seemed to be getting on really well, he used to be really nice to me we'd have a few flirty texts but things were sometimes awkward when he'd ask me to go round but I didn't want to tell my mum & dad where I was going. He then said we can just be friends, so we chatted as friends and then things started heating up between us again and he told me all he wanted was sex because sex is fun but he didn't want a relationship because the age gap is too much and I'm too young for anything serious. I agreed to meet up with him though and we went for a ride in his car, he told me no funny business though and we went and chatted, I started to really like him though so I told him how I felt, then he said that nothing could happen because of the age gap. I took this on board and wanted to carry on chatting as friends but he started getting really weird with me and we stopped speaking for 2 days. At the weekend he text me out of the blue telling me he was free if I wanted to go round for some fun, I didn't go, but I really want to start talking properly again I just don't know what to say is this normal? Or should I forget about him? Is the age gap too big?

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38% Normal
Based on 63 votes (24 yes)
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  • Maggie2000
    10 years ago

    If I were you I would avoid having anything to do with him.
    He has already said that he just wants sex and not a relationship. Trust me, he is immature. A normal, loving relationship does not start like this. He obviously doesn't know what a real relationship is.
    You are young and have plenty of time to find a loving partner.
    I'd say that the age gap isn't a real problem in itself, but his immaturity and disrespect towards you is a problem.
    Sorry if this is not what you want to hear, but he is giving you mixed signals and you don't need this!
    Best wishes to you and I hope you will be able to get over this.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      "He has already said that he just wants sex and not a relationship"

      In other words, he's purrfect.

      Faggie2000 don't know shit about shit.

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  • Elyod88
    10 years ago

    Don't waste your time.

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  • Moonbow
    10 years ago

    Forget him. He doesn't know what he wants.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    10 years ago

    he was honest enough to tell you what hes looking for. i mean he could have easily fooled you and made you think you had something special to get some loving. it would have been so easy for him seens you already like him.

    idk why maggie2000 is saying hes giving mix signals, hes not. he clearly says you guys can be friends.
    but i do think you should leave him, hes not looking for a serious relationship, and you are it seems. your just gonna get hurt if your looking for more than friends.

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  • Jeaneathean
    10 years ago

    Forget him. He sounds horrible.

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  • ScooterNyne
    10 years ago

    It's not the age gap. It's his sorry, disrespectful, little shit, attitude that makes this guy worthless. Maybe even a threat. Just ignore him.

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  • peterrabbyt2
    10 years ago

    Tell him to go fuck himself the sonofabitch!

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  • mevil
    10 years ago

    you are just a kid for god's sake, get over it.

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    I voted normal because some people are just interested in "fun" and not an actual relationship. He told you that straight up and it is what it is. You can either take it or leave it.

    It's unfortunate that you want something else, but the hard truth is that you aren't going to find what you're looking for here.

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