Is it normal for him to act like this?

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Recently i have fallen for this guy, and he lives quite a long way away (6h on train). Our relationship started really good, talk alot over the phone, and had a pretty active Sex-t life, but he's more of a free spirit then i expected. I know he has a girlfriend who lives around 2h away from him, he says it won't last but because im far away and she was before me its not fair for him to dump her for me. I accept this,and he also has this other girl, but he says its only for the sex but then sometimes we don't talk at all, i get worried because we are in an 'open-relationship'meaning we can both fuck and date whoever we want until he is in and out of university (4 years away). It has been really hard for me to accept this and we have had a couple of fights but got over it. But now at the moment we aren't even talking, im on and he's online but he doesn't even say hello.. i mean he says he loves me but how can he when we never speak. Now he's talking to this girl who lives in America, and it hurts because i know he's talking to her way more than me, he told me not to be jealous when i asked, but when i feel she's more pretty than me and he comments on her status which says 'I'm ugly' with 'Your so beautiful people think your fake' i just get so worried. I havent talked to him for nearly a week now. Am i just way to possesive and shud just keep waiting for him to talk to me.. i just don't know he screws my head up because i really love him, i can't help it but he's slowly breaking my heart ! HELP!!!

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    He sounds like a man whore with all those girls he's tossing around. Don't be one of those girls. And if he already has a gf, don't be that girl that the girlfriend will cry about when she finds out that hes two timing her with. Its wrong. That guy needs a slap in the face. I feel sorry for his girlfriend.

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  • norm
    12 years ago

    There is no future in this relationship, whatsoever. The sad thing is that you already know it, that's why you posted here.

    Now comes the hard part. You must face reality.

    Move on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    wow 0% i think thats a first, don't you feel special???

    p.s. i would say find someone better then him, but even most assholes are better then him. Find someone who treats who how you deserve to be treated. :)

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  • EbonySheep
    12 years ago

    Some people are polygamous and happy about it. There are two hormones, vasopressin in men and oxytocin in females, that have been shown to promote polygamous behavior. Clearly, you do not have that. Get out of that relationship, fast.

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  • candle8
    12 years ago

    That man needs to be slapped in the face with a dead fish.

    It is hard, but you must break it off with this guy. It's not like you have a big history together, that will be painful to forget...

    He probably has low self-esteem, and that's why he needs all those pseudo- relationships around him. From what I'm hearing, none of it is a REAL relationship.

    And those "Open relationship" stuff... Please! only 0,01% of human population can cope with that and be happy. That's crap. Please, be strong! ANd he lives 6 hours away from you, that can only make it easier to avoid seeing and thinking abouth him.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Wow, sounds to me like you are the mistress and he's found a way to make you ok with that. You are the other woman and he has other women on top of the two of you as well and somehow you are feeling guilty in all this.

    Is an open relationship truly what you are looking for? I mean, you are talking about having more of him in 4 years so you seem to be looking for more. If you would be happier in a monogamous relationship then you should go to find what would make you happier. This man is obviously playing the field so he isn't going to give you that. I say you dump the guy and find one all to yourself. Find a man you don't have to share.

    It's not selfish to take it all if you are willing to give it all.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    He's not worth your time. I mean, he has a gf & he's cheating on her by flirting around with all these other girls. And, sadly I don't think he loves you if he's ignoring you. Just move on.

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