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Is it normal for a girl..not my girlfriend tho, but i known her for a long time like really close friends..to follow me home, allow me take her shirt off and play with her boobs..she really wanted that..but resisted when i tried taking off her panties for the real deal giving no reason for the rejection...
i feel failed not knowing what to do or say to her.
Am I the only one here who is questioning why you're not just sleeping with your girlfriend only as opposed to fooling around with anyone else?!?!
Like, I get that you might not have that spark anymore but if that's the case, you can just tell her it's over and then fuck around with however many floozies you want. At least be a man about it and tell her face to face before you go off and play with another girls tits. Not telling her is just disrespectful.
It may not be so much a rejection of you. She has a right to decide what she is and is not comfortable doing. And she even has the right to change her mind partway through. If you make a big deal of it, she'll be less comfortable, and less likely to do anything with you.
I suggest you communicate with her. Have a frank talk about what both of you would and would not enjoy. And make sure you respect her limits! If you want intimacy and trust, you have to be patient and show that she can trust you. That you won't pressure her to do more than she is ready for. Maybe in time she will want to do more. Maybe she won't. Either way, you have to respect her right to set boundaries on how far she wants to go.
Girls are weird, a girl jerked me off but didnt want to use her mouth or let me go inside her. Its weird