Is it normal for her to be scared?

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I told my friend I liked her, I'm a girl aswell, and it has been almost a year of her not speaking to me now. When she was younger she did get teased about how people thought she was gay so it would be unlikely for her to just come out and say it, but if you read my other one about sucking eachothers fingers and she also once said to me "I would go out with you, if you were a guy" then you would maybe see why I'm confused about wether she is just afraid of saying she likes me or if she doesn't like me at all. I mean is it normal for someone to try and avoid you and be scared to tell you they like you? Because me and my other friends are convinced she is gay, but she refuses to let anyone in so I don't know?

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Yes it is normal for people to be scared but she doesn't like you 7
Yes and she sounds like she does 11
No and she doesn't like you 2
No but she could like you 2
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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    People are convinced I am gay when I am not, and hell, I have met guys I think would be girlfriend material if they were female, but I wouldn't "be" with them just due to that, because they are still guys.

    I think you need to be sure of her orientation before trying to find a reason for this.

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      ^---This!

      Yes, just because people think someone looks gay or straight doesn't mean they are.

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  • WishIWasHere
    9 years ago

    Is she (your friend) even sure of her orientation?

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    • Hermionegranger
      9 years ago

      she's never said anything about liking any guys or her orientation none of her friends know?

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