Is it normal for her to be doing this??

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hey everyone,
so this is how it goes, met a girl, fell in love,it seemed like this is it. we have really high levels of understanding and all. i tell the girl who introduced her to me that i have feelings for her and wanna get into a long term gig. but i got to know that she has just started to go out with some one, so i backed off and continued to be good friends. after a while i couldn't keep from telling her about how i felt, and she politely turned me down, which i knew was gonna happen, but she told me that i was a really important friend to her and she wants it to stay that way.
we hang out most of the time and i still love her but never talk about it and for some reason she has kept the other guy a secret from me.
here's the twist every time we party, or go out drinking or things like that she warms up to me like a cheese cake. she says things that get me confused. i keep getting inputs from our mutual friend that her relationship is going strong but still she does things that makes me go crazy. for instance 1. she hugs me and says never to let go. 2. she keeps souvenirs from our meetings 3.when she is a bit high she holds my hand and refuses to let go even for a sec. and there are many other things...
now what am i supposed to make of this and is it normal for her to be doing this???

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  • beautiful_soul
    12 years ago

    Dude you’re on her hook! She’s using you when her bf is not around..

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I really don't know. I'm happy I never lived this. I would just stop talking to her, I wouldn't want people to play with my feelings like that. I think you should do the same. You can always ask her to have a serious talk before you do anything else.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    she sounds immature, a lil selfish, probably totally hot, and not to mention, she's playing mind games! ur putting up with it. don't be a fool.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You're totally on her hook! If you want to know if she's using you, then tell her she saids things that confuse you. Tell her you like her. And if she rejects you again, you know she doesn't like you, so stop talking to her and let her go! If she calls you afterwards she'd just be using you, because you know she doest like you.

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  • Jgrass41
    11 years ago

    If you still need help , from an old man with years of relationships behind him, the best thing you can possibly do is be completely open and honest with her tell her how feel when shes near, and when she is with her boyfriend. She wants you there for comfort because shes unsure about the other guy. Things may not work for you but years later you'll remember you didnt leave confused and heartbroken. Listen to your instincts its hard to hear them sometimes but thier usually right.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    thanks guys..... im gonna try cutting off.... the only thing that will keep me from doing it is me... so hope i beat me at it...

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