Is it normal for her to act like this?

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There's a girl that I met not too long ago. We really hit it off at a party, and ended up kissing goodnight. She gave me her number, and we started talking a lot. I then found out she has a boyfriend, but said she didn't really feel terrible about kissing me because she doesn't think they'll last. We've hung out a couple times, and nothing's happened, but I told her recently that I was interested in her, and apologized if it was awkward. She said it wasn't awkward at all, and that she was flattered. I really don't know if this is going to turn into me getting lead on, or if I should pursue this.

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Based on 51 votes (22 yes)
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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    I think you should look elsewhere, if shes doing this to her bf now, she'll prob do the same thing to you. I dont just mean the kissing part either, I mean hanging out/becoming closer with you all without her bfs knowledge. How could you trust her if it ever got serious with you two at some point.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    You lose em just the way you got em!

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  • dragonfruit33
    9 years ago

    All people are sociopathic...so it is normal...what is not normal is that true love does not roll like that and you should either play her back and enjoy it ... or just drop her now if you know your heart will get too emotionally involved with her

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  • wowmemy
    13 years ago

    nah, leave her alone. Like randomjelly said, if she's a whore to her bf (which she is hands down) then she'll be whore to you. what makes it worse is how she trys to use excuses to justify her actions. so not right.

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    Just deal with being her side piece, she's not breaking up with her bf

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  • randomguy21
    13 years ago

    I agree with Mel. Don't bother, because you never know how many other guys are in the same zone as you are right now.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    If she's a whore to him she'll be a whore to you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Just no dude

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  • Mel
    13 years ago

    If she doesnt like him, she should just break up with him. Thats what an honest person would do.

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    • dragonfruit33
      9 years ago

      It is just a game to her....unless OP is willing to play along and keeping his head in game...he must not feel played if he wants to be played.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think you should wait until they've officially broken up so that your not geting led on or hurt by her if she actually does end up staying with him.

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    • dragonfruit33
      9 years ago

      Yeah that is after he fought for her...

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