Is it normal for guys to treat their girlfriend badly?

Ugh, don't be racist..
Both men and women of all races can be possessive and ignorant at once. For the Original Poster: Leave him. Not worth your time, you deserve someone much better.

It's because some guys are ass holes. If he can't tell you he loves you then he doesn't. And if he doesn't say he misses you....then chances are he doesn't

You need to find someother dude to talk to. Guys like him don't change and you can't fix them. You have to make them realize that what they're doing is messed up. And after a few girls bounce from his life for that reason he'll consider changing. My best friend was a dick, treating girls with no respect doing whatever he wants...I felt bad for the girls he dated

Don't let him pull that crap on you

He sounds like a control freak. These types of guys can be abusive and dangerous. I would end this "So called" relationship immediately. Any guy that acts possessive of you but doesn't show or say he loves and respects you is scary... that is your cue to bolt your little ass out of that fake relationship and find a real man that knows how to care for a woman...

No that is not normal. Some few guys are shitheads, avoid them. If they're the kind of guy that "doesn't want to show their weaknesses" then they are too macho to love anyway. Avoid.

he obviously doesnt care like you think he does..he just weird and has a problem. he internet isnt a good source for dating! try meeting guys that are local

That's not love if he treats you that way! Got out of the relationship.

Dump his ass girlfriend!

Sounds like u need a boyfriend that respects u and truly loves you.. They're pretty hard to find tho. Never settle

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I'm sorry sis but I don't think he loves u..

It's normal because they get away with it. So don't let them.

if you dont know someone in real life how can u love them? and if he loved u he would have no problem with saying these things back, you should get a real life boyfriend that you can spend time with, its alot more fun and you can actually do things with them.

This is a guessing game.

A) You = Boy, messing with boy on net.

B) You = Girl, messing with boy on net.

C) You = Grown person, messing with everyone on net.

D) Bot.

E) Person of any age group who really believes the internet is a real avenue for these types of connections.

Did I guess right?

If he really cares about you, he would be considerate of your feelings. If he doesn't notice that, he's either a douchebag, insensitive, or just unable to understand what you're going through.

he isn't in love with you.; and he doesn't respect you. someone who loves you will worship the ground you walk on and treat you like a queen. my x bf treated me lik shit never said i love you to me. he abused me. he took my money.
i will openly say this. i hate mexican men. they are rude,ignorant,jerks and assholes. they think they are higher than everyone not equal. they think everyone is lesser of a person than they are.
btw haha are you w a mexican guys cause most mexican guys treat women like this?
you need to leave him and never talk to him again. that is what i did to my x. i left him. and never spoke to him again. he tried so hard to get back with me and i threatened him byt ellign him i will take him to court for harrassment. and he stopped contacting me at all. 3 yrs later(i was single for that long!) i met my current husband! he treats me like a queen. buys what ever i want or need. and buys our daughter what she needs or wants!) you too can find the right person if you give it a chance and that ,means you MUST LEAVE THIS BASTARD!!!!NOW!