Is it normal for guys to stalk us girls?

Is it normal that every time this week whenever I leave my flat to take my dog a walk in the park up the road this guy who I turned down always appears without fail?! We Hung out at one point but when he started making moves and even turned up out front of my building drunk,shouting for me! I froze him out and iv been away for 3 months but its like he knew when I got back! I ignored his calls but now I see him everyday....I think he's stalking me,I told him the other day that u couldn't be anything to him because he always does or says something Inapropreiate.he acted like he understood but evidently not! He doesn't live in my area but he's always around.not sure if he's tryin to scare me so that I hang out with him again out of fear,better a friend then an enemy or he's so crazy he doesn't realise he's scaring me,I can't go to the cop shop with just this but I is bothering me,he said his brother was a scitzo (sic) who killed someone:....I'm starting to wonder if he even has a brother!what Do I do!

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22% Normal
Based on 79 votes (17 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • aussiewolf

    go to the police straight away!

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  • rayst

    Go to the police so if he kills you, they'll have a suspect lolll

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  • dappled

    I'm sorry to hear this. I've been stalked twice and I don't think anything in life has unsettled me more. I didn't go to the police (because it's faintly ridiculous for a big, strong man to be scared of a girl, but I was genuinely scared). The second time in particular, I didn't know what she was going to do next. It spiralled badly out of control in a very short space of time.

    Although I didn't go to the police, I'd urge you to.

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  • bleach_baby

    Talk to the police so if anything bigger happens they have something on record and it's easier to get a restraining order.

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  • aduusw

    You have enough to go to the police

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  • star5

    Very scary.. I say u tell him to leave u the F alone or you'll call the cops and have him arrested. Get a restraining order too, tell them he's stalking you.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Of course, it's not normal!!! Go to police And get a restraining order against him. Do it now!!!

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  • ThomasMatthewDelonge

    Give him a gobbie.

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  • BallerinaCass

    My mom used to have a stalker when she was young. She remembers him standing outside her window or over her bed watching her while she slept!

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  • theredwolf

    man thats a bit drastic. if you explained to him that ur not interested and he indeed keeps coming back he has a serious problem. calling the cops....well i leave that for you to decied, but be warned it could push him over the edge instead of makin him back off.

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  • ~S~

    I'd kick the shit out of him.

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  • Sabaky

    Get a restraining order

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  • Delvok

    CALL THE PO PO'S!

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  • stardogchampion

    Well iv changed my routine a bit and iv started walking my dog in a different place but if he starts turning up again ill ask a cop what my options are .dappled,I wanna know what happened in your case now! My mate Casey said he wished he was being stalked by a girl and I said well imagine your a girl being stalked by a crazy man built like a brick shit house! But I guess its creepy regardless! It ain't fun!

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  • wreckd

    Woww thats scaryyy. ^^^ Cops WILL take care of that for you.

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