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So basically I’m a virgin and I haven’t really been in any real relationships. When online I’m pretty fun and guys often like me, but in real life I’m completely different, I’m awkward and it’s not the same. I struggle to try and be less awkward irl like I am online, but it never works. Am I the only one with this problem?
I'm right there with you. I can be all kinds of relaxed onlune, but irl, well I of course don't carry myself url as I do online. First off,I'm a male crossdresser. So you can see why I would separate the two. But really it's much easier online since we can pretty much be who we want, and how we want to be the who. Less rejections online also. We don't fear being made fun off for being to short, to tall, awkward voice, wears glasses, maybe has a limp, etc. All of those things we don't have to declare, because nobody can see our little imperfections. We may even be the only one that see the things we don't like about ourselves. But I read something years ago that has stuck with me, "God doesn't make any junk". So When You meet others irl, just be proud of who you are, hold your head up high, don't listen to others who might try to make fun of you being a virgin. You have self control, or you haven't found the right guy (or girl) yet. Be proud of the mature decisions you have made so far.
In my eyes, the internet gives socially awkward people advantages, like time to think of what you’ll type, no awkward stares or laughs from people, and being able to deliver anything you want to say without thinking “Oh my god! My tone of voice made that sound really weird!”
Anyone with clever words can give out their points without worrying about how they look or sound on the internet, or at least that’s how I see it.
Well its sometimes good not to have close online freinds & trust me I know😢
Coz if they betray you you will always feel broken or empty ..the girl I was talking about in the other comment I dont think that we can ever meet IRL coz she is from diff country so in my opinion real freinds are sometimes better than the online ones but just sometimes,
Well you can count me as your online friend if you want😉
Do you mean.....is it normal for guys to not hit on you in person but online guys do? If so, then yea same here.
It's so funny because i actually met my long time girlfriend online! She's very anti-social and shy but never online. Of course she has the same personality irl as she does online when i'm around.
Well you are not the only one count me in too coz I have almost the same problem except that I am a guy.. I even like a girl here on this site but I am sure of it that we can't meet & I think she will only like me online I have never tried nor intended to meet her irl
Texting personalities are often different than irl, why a lot of people say they're, "Not looking for pen pals" in dating sites. Up your personal game through practice.