Is it normal for guys to fall in love/cry like this?

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I am your average 18 year old guy that would have thought this story was bull shit had I read it before experiencing it.
I met a girl at a 4H trip to Washington DC (there are non-lame things in 4H too) a year and a half ago. I met her on the first day and we hung out for pretty much all day for the whole trip which was only a week, but I fell in love with her. She says she fell in love with me, she cried like crazy when I left. I know that's impossible. I would have told you it was impossible and stupid too.
She lives more than 20 hours away from me, so I didn't see her for a while. Now I am in college and she went on a 4H trip to the same city as my college, so I went to see her. (Last Sunday) We had stayed in touch by texting and Facebook, but I had forgotten how much I loved her. I saw her again and everything came back. I skipped class to see her on Monday and we talked for five hours. When I was leaving she started crying like crazy and cried in my arms for at least 10 mins. My white button up has makeup all over it. When she stopped crying, I kissed her and left.
I got back to my dorm, and I started balling like a baby. I was never going to see her again, and I loved her more than anything. I have never felt this much before. I love her way more than before. I have cried almost every day since I saw her. I need her. She bought a webcam to Skype me and she later told me every time we say bye on there she cries again.
I NEVER cry. I didn't cry a single time in high school. I don't know the last time I cried. Like I said I am your regular guy that just wants sex and isn't touchy feelly. Yet I am IN LOVE WITH HER. You can't understand how much I mean that. There's no doubt. It's not some puppy-love/crush/she's-hot shit. She's really pretty but that has nothing to do with it. I don't even want to have sex with her. I just want to be with her and hold her again. She is the only thing I can think about. Can I really fall in love in a week and hold onto that for over a year? And is it normal for a guy to cry this much over someone? If you had told me this story before I met her I would call you a pussy and said get the fuck over it. I know it sounds totally crazy, but it's true.

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  • TaylorRae17
    13 years ago

    This is so sweet and normal .
    You guys are lucky to have each other.
    Its completely fine for you to love her that much .

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      And this isn't lucky, because I am never going to see her again. Even if I see her once, it would be useless. She lives 17 hours away now. I am going to college for an 8 year degree, currently a freshman, and she is going for 8 1/2 years but is a senior in high school.

      We wouldn't even be capable of living in the same town for 8 years, or 10 years from now when she graduates college.
      I can't have an only webcam relationship for 8-10 years.

      Also what I meant I was bawling not balling. Big difference.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Do you know how many girls search for a guy like you? Dude you are one
    In a million keep it up and try to get her back ok? Good luck !

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    My ex is like this ex cause I couldent see her for 4 years she cried her eyes out I sat there for an hour just trying to get her to stop crying and when I went to go see her for a summer she takled me when I got off the plain literly I was on the floor then she cried her eyes out when I left even tho I was moving back in a year dude this relly is luck to find her that easy she literly walked up to me and I asked her out

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  • nohatingplz
    11 years ago

    It's normal and also extremely sweet and lovely. Please don't give up and do whatever you have to do to get together. These kinds of loves are very rare and special.

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  • Etheredge92
    13 years ago

    totally normal. maybe not so much as far as guys go, but DO NOT give up on her. you'll spend the rest of your life wondering what could have happened..she sounds great. don't let her go.

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  • Not_Who_I_Say_I_Am
    13 years ago

    Hope you see her again.

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  • jamesastonn
    13 years ago

    You must see her again, what if you never get over her and you regret it for the rest of your life?

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  • babylady
    13 years ago

    Thats actually super sweet....I hope you can make things work and be together, good luck my love.

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    Try to see her again ....

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