Is it normal for guys to be so hot and cold?

I was dating this guy and he approached me and asked me to date. We hung out for a couple weeks, did some fun things together. On new years eve, he said he was going to some parties, he asked me if I wanted to go. I told him yes. He later told me that he had an invite for himself +1 and he was taking his friend Brice. Over the next week I asked him if he wanted me to go still and he said he hadn't heard from his friend if he could bring an additional person. I asked him on the 30th if I was going with him or not so I could make other plans, he told me to calm down and yes we could go together. On New Years Eve I called him and he said him and his friend were already at 1 party and were going to another later on. This confused me since I thought it was only one party. He told me to call him when I was ready and he would send me the address. I was a bit uncomfortable showing up at someone's house by myself. He sent me the address of the first party, when my friends asked me to take them to a party they were going too. I drove them up there and then he texted me asking me where I was at. I told him where I was. A few minutes later he texts me and says "thanks for standing me up". It was only 11 pm. i still had time to get to the party before new years and I was keeping text communication with him, at which he never asked me when I was going to be there. Is it normal for him to assume that because we've only been dating a couple weeks for him not to have to go to the party with me instead of just giving me an address?