Is it normal for guys to be prideful when they're in love?

do guys lose their pride and ego when they love someone? or if they have this big sense of pride, will they always have it even if they come across someone they love?

My bf isn't that openly prideful but once you get to know him, he does have an ego but also uses it to protect himself. However, I wonder if he loves me or at least thinks special of me. I wish he can swallow his pride like Ive done with him. It has been so easy for me to because I love him. When you love someone, you have no pride; you don't care if you look weak, dumb, ugly, etc. You'll do anything for that person because their existence makes you happy. It is nice to know that he has kind of brushed off his ego when he's with me but he barely does it. Sometimes he just doesn't want to do something that I would do for him and it obviously hurts. I dont know if thats just who he is or he doesn't love me that much. Is it normal for guys to still carry their pride when in love? or does love erase everyones ego including guys'?

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  • mysistersshadow

    Alot of guys are like that I hope it works out for you.

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  • Thorolf

    I kept my pride, confidence, etc. Knowing that someone loves and wants me boosts those things. However I'd happily do something for my girl if she needed it. So it's not one equals the other.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Why should either of you give up your pride? Honestly OP he sounds like he has self respect and you sound like a push-over. Of course you should care if you come across as an ugly imbecile, what has being in love got to do with taking pride in yourself?

    You sound weak, dependent on him for validation and desperate for co-dependence.

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