Is it normal for guy you're casually dating to..

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I met this guy 4 months ago. Started dating 3 months ago. He broke up with his girlfriend of 6 years about 6 months ago and the only reason I get for their breakup was "I don't know". I've tried to ask his friends and they tell me they seemed happy together and they didn't understand why he broke up with her...

So out of curiousity I looked at his YouTube to see what he liked and favorited. Looks like he doesnt favorite things often at all and recently favorited a video clip from scenes in a tv show as well as stand up comedy about love...

In the clip there's a female friend of one of the male characters saying why are you still talking about her when it's been years and the male character says "because I love her and I can't just move on from her. People keep telling me to just move on but when you love someone you don't ever stop I will love her forever"

Then the stand up comedy are mostly the same thing, mentioning that you can grow to love anyone even a hobo, that the perfect person doesn't exist, that love dies etc...

I've looked back at his favorites of when he was with his ex...all he ever liked for years and years were 90% love songs yes I scrolled all the way.

Is this normal / iffy? Does it sound like he may still be thinking of her? What am I to him?

Yes seems fine probably means nothing 8
No not normal, seems fishy 1
Other 1
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  • idcwho
    5 years ago

    It seems like he's just into romantic things, I could enjoy listening to songs about taking drugs and fucking bitches but that doesn't mean that I'm an addict or even indicates I've done any of those things

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  • Angelandme
    5 years ago

    I am with my current gf of 7 yrs. I still have poems and songs I wrote about my ex gf 10yrs ago. My gf knows these mean a lot to me because they are my memories,the good and bad and what I learned about love, she sees that it is more important to let me have my memories and relics of my past than to be jelous.
    I'm not with my ex, after all.

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