Is it normal for girls to think of other guys who when getting off?

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My girlfriend can only really cum when her clit Is being rubbed. It has been my mission over the past couple of years to make her cum just by penetration I think I have it’s definitely sounded like it but it doesn’t happen often. She either needs to rub herself at the beginning of us hooking up or at the end she prefers the beginning so when she starts cumming I can put it in fully and start pounding. If I happen to finish first she likes holding my dick or having me lay on my stomach while she rubs my ass, my balls and everything in between from the back side so I continue to moan a little in her ear. She always has her eyes closed when masturbating and doesn’t like to look at me or me look at her. Sometimes if something comes up when I’m done she’s ok with me leaving while she finishes herself off. I’m curious if she thinks of other guys or other dick while cumming what do other girls do? Me personally I could jerk off to her face her ass her boobs her underwear her walking around the house cleaning I’m just attracted to her and can cum to anything “her” but I don’t know how her and other girls think when getting off. She hasn’t had sex with many guys and hasn’t had sex with another guy in a good few years but I’m just curious what girls think of I know what guys think of. Lol

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    I’m not too into eye contact. Only thinking about the man I’m with.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Thank you

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    3 years ago

    Man is it just me or is everyone getting hornier since the quarantines? These intimacy questions are becoming more and more common now

    If you're serious, everyone is different. No one can speak for what your girlfriend thinks of during that time. Maybe she doesn't think of other guys but maybe she does. Why not ask her?

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  • Boojum
    3 years ago

    "My girlfriend can only really cum when her clit Is being rubbed. It has been my mission over the past couple of years to make her cum just by penetration"

    You should make it your mission to learn how to make yourself come just by having your balls massaged.

    You probably think that's a ridiculous suggestion, since I suspect you have enough understanding of male physiology and the male sexual response to know that it's very difficult for a guy to reach orgasm without his glans (the head of his dick) being repeatedly stimulated.

    But the fact is that the glans of the penis and the clitoris start out as the same tissue in a fetus, so they're basically the male and female versions of the same bit of the body. (The clitoris actually has a lot more nerve-endings than the glans does packed into a much smaller area, and the visible external clitoris is just the tip of a much bigger organ, but they're very similar.)

    It is supposedly possible for guys to either have the natural ability to come without the glans being stimulated at all or they can learn how to do that, but it's extremely unusual. Similarly, some women can come just by thinking the right sexy thoughts or train themselves to reach orgasm by stimulating their breasts or other parts of their body, but the vast majority of women need rhythmic stimulation of the clitoris in order to reach orgasm.

    Researchers have found that only something like 20% of women are able to reach orgasm just by penis-in-vagina thrusting. For most women, the position of their clitoris relative to the vagina means that a thrusting penis just doesn't give the clitoris enough stimulation for them to come.

    So your girlfriend is entirely normal and what you should be mainly thinking about when you see her making herself come is how lucky you are to have a girlfriend who feels free to do that while you're with her. Lots of women are far too self-conscious to let anyone watch them when they masturbate, and it really doesn't matter a damn who or what she's thinking about. She's with you and you've either just had sex with her or you're about to, and that's the only important thing.

    Your curiosity about what she's thinking about while she's masturbating is understandable, but she has the right to keep those thoughts private if she chooses to do so. Of course, the obvious way to find out what she's thinking is to ask her, but it's possible she either knows or believes that you're too insecure or immature to deal with that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Well thank you for that response I guess that makes a lot of sense I never really thought about it like that I thought she was just hard to pleasure .. I had a girlfriend before that could squirt easily fingers my dick her clit didn’t matter my bed would be soaked

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    • Bazinga
      3 years ago

      I took this a step further with my girlfriends. After they were completely relaxed, I would ask if they would masturbate and if I could rest my finger lightly on top of theirs as a supportive presence. It was a tremendous learning experience. After that, they would say, during my vaginal massages, that I was giving them sensations they could not give themselves.

      You raise a good point about structure of the clitoris that is internal. It is imperative to stimulate the entire structure. There are internet videos about this. You'll make her squirt every time.

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      • Boojum
        3 years ago

        Good advice, Baz.

        Women vary in the technique they prefer in terms of pressure, the point the pressure is applied and the speed of the stimulation. If you have some experience and pay careful attention to how a woman responds, it's usually possible to figure out what works by trial and error, but a woman demonstrating what she needs is much easier.

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    3 years ago

    Yes, in your case they will always think of someone else to be able to cum

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