Is it normal for girls to react this way?

Iv realised that girls react differently to the same treatment by guys!!

example..if one guy uses words I would consider disrespectful towards a girl...she shows without doubt that she doesnt mind( mostly these are so called bad boys).. But its a whole different story if a guy who looks decent tries such words on the same girl...it leaves me wondering: Ist only ok for some people do some things and not others??? For adventur's sake?

A friend of mine actualy brokeup with his galfriend ( who was in a much disrespectful relationshp with one loser) before dating my decent friend for aparently saying he " would like to give her a gud fuck". Well we all know she was used to more than that....So what the hell????

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  • Girls don't like guys who mistreat them, insecure idiots like guys who mistreat them. Any girl who wants a serious relationship is gonna want a guy who treats her with respect and that includes speaking in a respectful manner to her and others around her. Girls react differently to certain guys saying certain things because we know some guys are common, disrespectful morons so when they speak disrespectfully, we're used to it and sigh inside but don't let it bother us. However, when a seemingly decent person, not just a guy, uses disrespectful words towards or around us we end up thinking "what the hell? Isn't he better than that?", that's why we react in different ways to different people because everyone is different and as contrary to popular belief as this sounds, in my eyes not everyone deserves equal treatment cause not everyone is equal. I don't treat a low life drug addict with the same level of respect as I treat my loved ones cause they're not equal in my eyes. Why should I? People aren't equal. You get shitty people that do shitty things and you get decent people that do decent things.

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    • dudemustafa

      Guess you are right...thoug I realy think its not fair that one would overeact over such petty things that probably was just meant to "spiceup" their sexlife. After all isnt that what sex experts refer to as " dirty talk" ? Anyway whats done is done!

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  • Um, my comment was purely on different people and how they treat other different people..

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  • Crμsades

    Women love guys who mistreat them. It shows that the guy doesn't take shit from her so (in her mind) he probably doesn't take shit from others either which makes him a good protector.

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    • DumBelle

      Why are you still here?

      I saw you yesterday out and about, yesterday; girls dislike you because you're unattractive AND a dewche. Maybe you'd live online "less" if you were an "attractive" douche and had parents who kissed your forehead.

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    • Parky_Parker

      Are you still jizzing all over?

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  • ....And I thot I was going to have some relevant comments...guess I was wrong

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    • DumBelle

      Well, not to be rude, but poorly written posts tend to come off as either someone too young to be one this site, or it is hard to be taken seriously...
      If you "search", there are plenty of posts, that ask the "same" question. It could be people have already answered it, multiple times. Try searching your own question, if you lack responses on this post.

      Girl's tolerance for men and boys' behavior towards them does not have to do with their appearance, alone, if you observe this "situation", you see a pattern and notice this, from your personal perspective. It is the person they put up with and tolerate, not physicality/attractive features, being "attractive people" will not make them immune to negative responses, in your eyes or experiences, possible, although that can pertain to age/maturity (lack of) If one chooses to date someone, there were desirable traits to begin with, yes looks, chemistry, personality, etc - but as we age, this is less relevant regarding long-term relationships (not for everyone) but most people know looks do not automatically mean someone is "perfect", people show their true colors, good or bad, eventually.

      Unconventionally attractive people date and struggle with a spouse/bf/gf mistreating them, too. Because love and attachment's to a relationship, can justify almost anything. My "friend" has an abusive, cheating, horrendous thing she claims a boyfriend-husband, she puts up with it, to this day.

      It's all relative. Hot, ugly, whatever, people can tolerate someone, and their behavior, regardless of looks. Be it cat-calling, street harassment or friendships/relationships. Intimidation or refraining from potential confrontation, is usually synonymous with accepting nonsense.

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