Is it normal for girlfriend not to answer my calls when with friends?

We are in a 3 years long-distance relationship and although we see each other 10 days in a row every month, when she is in her city and i m in mine, when she is with her friends she won t answer my calls..

Excuses :
- I don t even look at phone. It was in my purse.
- It is rude to be on your phone when with somebody.

When i say i m worried, just text me once, say everythings ok ..... she replays :don t worry about me i can take care of my self...
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Based on 25 votes (13 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • mystery7

    That kind of neediness ("i m worried, just text me once, say everythings ok") is going to ensure she dumps you as soon as she meets someone better, if she hasn't already.

    It sounds like it's a sign of her moving on, so next time you see her you should talk about it with her.

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  • CountessDouche

    Long distance relationships exist on trust alone. It's probably the most important factor. If you're worried when she told you ahead of time that she's busy, you have major problems that probably won't be resolved, given the distance.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I had a long-distance relationship with a guy who expected the same thing and it pissed me off so bad like, I really am just hanging out with my friends, I am not fucking around with my phone and if I am it is to check the time. His retort would always be "well I text you around MY friends" well fuck you, guy, but when I am with my friends I actually like to be WITH my friends.

    Some people really just need some freedom.

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  • Melora

    She is right that when she is with her friends she only answers the phone in emergencies. It is not okay for you to claim her like that. If you go setting up rules for her to check her like that you will have a father-daughter relationship and you cannot rhyme that with a sexual relationship.

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  • MCEminem

    yeh shes busy i guess

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  • NathanScot

    Fucking pussy..Dont be needy mate.If i was u i'd just do my own thing and only talk to her when we meet face to face.I rarely call my gf probably once in 2 days,cause i've got shit to do than waste time talking to sm1 whose thoughts i already know...Long distance relationships are dicey.

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