Is it normal for freinds to kiss you on the lips and it not be gay?

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I have weird friends most of them are bi or lesbian. They sometimes like to kiss me on the cheeks or the lips and they do this a lot. Sometimes just stand there holding me kissing me like that over and over. They say no its not gay they just do it for fun. I do not know I just moved this new area is this normal behavior between girls? I do not know if I should just go with it or if it is gay? I do not mind it but Is it normal? They say they would never date chicks but I do not understand why they kiss me. Also it makes me confused as to how to feel since I do not know how to take it. Also they do it when Im not paying attention so I am usually just caught off guard by the act or just grab me and hug me and start kissing me. I do not know if this is normal? They say its not Gay? Is it Gay?

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    It's probably not, but I wouldn't let them do it. If they go around kissing all the time and then kiss you, you'll get sick. Possibly diseased. I caught mono from drinking after someone, that's how easy diseases are passed through saliva.
    Even still, apparently this make you uncomfortable. Demand some respect from your friends and tell them to stop.

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    • Short&2thepoint
      11 years ago

      Yeah that shit sucks. my first kiss got me mono. The irony.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        11 years ago

        My bro got that at 7 for sharing a cup with one of his friends. I do not take that claim of kissing giving it to you too seriously.

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        • Short&2thepoint
          11 years ago

          Not saying it's a deadly disease like the ones you are concerned about, just agreeing with you on the point that kissing can spread things easily.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Well It is not that. It just it confuses me I am not sure if I should like it or not since I really do not understand the boundaries. Also no one here seems to have a lot of boundary’s so it just makes me confused. Also is letting them kiss me not having respect? They are all female so. I’m not worried about the sickness since none of us will touch each other when we are sick.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    That's not okay. Tell them you are straight. They shouldn't be pushing anything on you like that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Are they straight?

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      • noid
        10 years ago

        No.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    If you're not comfortable with the way somebody is touching you, tell them to stop. It's your body. Nobody is allowed to touch you without your permission.

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  • GazingEye
    10 years ago

    Hugging and just a fast kiss on the cheek is okay but kissing on the lips over and over really isn't. You might even become sick from it so I would tell them to stop. And I do believe that they are either gay or bisexual. If a guy came up to me and kissed me on the lips I would think he is gay. Soon people will be asking "I got to school and my male friend dragged me into the toilets and fucked my ass, does this mean he is gay" Hmmm YEAH or BISEXUAL.

    I know girls like this who at the time said it wasn't gay but now you go on facebook see who they are together with and it happens to be with another women.

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  • Charle44
    11 years ago

    Doesn't matter if it's normal or not; doesn't matter if it's gay or not. If it freaks you out, tell them to stop.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Hey two of you. Another chari.m on this site. I think they are female.

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  • BloodRedAndTrue
    10 years ago

    that sounds hot

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