Is it normal for fiancé to refuse to use dildo....

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Is it normal for my fiancé to refuse point blank that she would not use her dildo on herself when we make love, even though she admits she cannot orgasm without it and uses it regularly on her own? And gives me absolutely no explanation as to why. I've made it completely clear that it would in no way affect my ego, only to turn me on immensely to see her in such pleasure.

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    Have you thought of the possibility that the reason she can't orgasm without her dildo is BECAUSE she uses it so much on her own..?

    Excessive masturbation could have desensitized her to the point that she cannot orgasm from sex. (or anything less stimulating than the "usual" [self-stimulation], for that matter.)

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  • ThisIsImpossible
    10 years ago

    Lol thats what you get for agreeing to be a fiance bruh

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  • Gspyder
    10 years ago

    Just a warning, the ones who can't climax from sex tend to be the ones who stop wanting to have it later on. I'd suggest figuring out how to get her there without the dildo, like oral foreplay.

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  • zenparadox
    10 years ago

    I think she sounds at least in this instance like a jerk. If she were only inhibited or ashamed or concerned about your feelings she wouldn't have admitted to using it at all. Or at least shed fake an orgasm or 2 for u. Only other non jerk possibility in can think of is she hopes to orgasm in another way from u. Something u aren't doing or won't do. Or she may feel awkward u seeing her orgasm in which case she should work on that so she can experience a fuller sexual encounter

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  • Couman
    10 years ago

    What about YOU using a toy on her?

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    • FunkyMonkey
      10 years ago

      I've suggested that as well but she was even less interested, that's why I suggested her to use it on herself, didn't want to pressure her in any way. I would love to use it on her!! The fact she gives me no explanation leaves me very confused!

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