Is it normal for everything to have changed like this?

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Before I started dating my current boyfriend of 3 years I had a very set plan. I wasn't going to get married, I wasn't going to have kids. Even when I started dating him I had the same view on life. Eventually I warmed up to the idea of marrying him, but only when we were older (since we would be more financially stable). He really wanted kids, but I didn't. However, in the past 6 months my views have completely changed. I am anxious to marry this man, in fact I would do it tomorrow. I fantasize about our wedding. I even want kids now, as many as he wants! Is it normal to be feeling this way? Does anyone know why this is happening?

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Based on 16 votes (13 yes)
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  • Stickypudding
    9 years ago

    Biological clock.

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  • dasugaknows
    9 years ago

    As time goes on, people change, and you are no exception. Same thing happened to me and here i am married and expecting a first child.

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  • cliffMFclavin
    9 years ago

    yes but your feelings can still flip the other way so just keep that in mind. they did for me, thankfully i didn't marry the guy or have kids with him, i'm lovin life now. haha jk life's alright but at least i don't have a marriage i don't want and children with miserable parents who don't love each other

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Yeah, I never wanted that either. But, I started realizing that I could never hate him. My boyfriend and I have literally spent everyday for the past 5 years (we were bestfriends before we dated) together and we can't get tired of each other. We just work together. It's like we were made to be in each other's lives. We fight, two seconds later we're over it and we're laughing again. We know how to communicate and I think that's key for a happy relationship. We value each other's dreams. We have been told by new people that we meet that him and I were made for each other. When we went down south, we were practically celebrities on our resort, because of our relationship. We went to a local Legion in our town with some friends and an older woman told me that in her entire life she had never met a couple that was more perfect. So I think the fact that I know how much we connect makes me realize that all I ever needed was this spark to make me want children and marriage. And now I think I also answered my own question LOL

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  • Lulilummu
    9 years ago

    just go with the flow~~

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