Is it normal for everyone not to like you ?

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Simply put. I don't understand why I can't find one true friend in this whole Universe that I can go to when I need someone to talk too or to just hang out with. Or to tell me how I'm thinking or feeling.... if it's right, wrong or just my imagination, someone like a confidant. I have no idea what I cold possibly be doing to shun others away. I have people that I call friends at work but they are not really there outside of it because they all have there lives to live. I'm married and we are happy as a couple but I need more than just him to go too. Everybody needs a true friend. I know that i'm a good person at heart but I don't really see any sincereity in others. It would be really nice to have a real true friend.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    You haven't provided enough info to give a meaningful reply.

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    • 1Mamasita
      7 years ago

      It's pretty difficult to explain in great detail. I just know that people meet me and i'm a kind person to them but they don't keep in touch with me to build a friendship. If there is something i'm doing wrong it would be nice to know. But if you don't know what to fix within yourself that others see you can't fix it. I don't know what others see in me that they really don't like or want to get to know better. They really don't try to get to know me in that way.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        Still need more info. Maybe a example?

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      • 1Mamasita
        7 years ago

        I think Azamans comment says it all. Most people are inheritly selfish.

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  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    I think most people are inheritly selfish, and a lot of people will be your 'friend' for their own personal gain, but I'd say if you're married your spouse should be your best friend.

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    • 1Mamasita
      7 years ago

      Thanks, Azaman on your comment. I really appreciate your feedback. My husband is genuinely my best friend. It would still be nice to have a girlfriend to talk to and hang out with every now and then.

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      • Azaman
        7 years ago

        Yeah, that makes sense, I guess there are certain things that only the other gender will relate to. I wish I could offer more to help but I can certainly relate, all my friends now are fair weather friends. Like you said, no real sincerity.

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