Is it normal for daughters to have crushes on their daddies?

I'm just wondering if it is normal for daughters to have a crush ontheir daddy. I just recently met my father, and I have a crush on him. I know it sounds wierd and crazy, as it does to myself. I am otherwise a normal person!!! And by the way, I am well above 18 y/o, (in case anyone is wondering).

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  • . . . And that was the last time I showered with my father.

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  • steezwhiz

    Well, i know there's a thing where kids who were put up for adoption, grow up and meet their birth parents and are sexually attracted to them. It goes vice versa too, so maybe that's what your experiancing. Just don't act on it obviously.

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  • Isolated

    Normal.
    People who say it's because if you do your baby will be deformed isn't really going to give you an answer. Ignore the haters. They're probably 12 year olds.

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  • stealinsugars

    It's called genetic sexual attraction or GSA and it's not as uncommon as most people would think. You can google it if you want to start your research there.

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  • genro

    Do u look like him? Could just be something as simple as u see a lot of yourself in him, or that you finally feel connected to him after not knowing him for. Your whole life....I don't think it's wired i just think there's more "pschologically" to it

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  • jessmartian

    As long as it's not In a sexual way I think it's normal. All little girls want to grow up and marry their dads. I think since you just met him though that you're kind of going back to that innocent little girl phase.
    Unless if course you want him in you. That's fucked up.

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  • Since you just met him, it's probably normal

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  • R19

    ACCORDING TO FREUD, IT'S A PHASE EVERY GIRL GOES THROUGH!

    THAT IS IF THERE IS A DAD TO CRUSH ON, GIRLS ALSO CRUSH ON THEIR BROTHERS SOMETIMES, OR ANY OLDER MALE ROLE-MODEL.

    SORRY FOR SCREAMING, JUST WANTED TO GET HEARD OVER ALL THIS NOISE!!!

    sorry =P

    check out the Oedipus phase for girls google, bing, yahoo, duckduckgo it now.

    What You are going through is different, it's called GSA (Genetic Sexual Attraction), it occurs between genetically similar people, you are most similar to your family.

    Humans are naturally attracted to people with similar genes but vastly different Immune systems.

    when added to the fact that you were unable to distance yourself due to another psychological event that happens between people who grow up together(e.g. sibling) to prevent incest, which only occurs if yous pend time with them. You it seems only met your dad recently. Your body is acting how it's supposed to , your reaction is normal, but illegal.

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  • Alexander_Louise_Armstrong

    i LOVE tougue kissing my dad

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  • almostunreadable

    I know more such cases (there's one in the bible too in OT and strangely nobody got blamed), it seems it's common to girls.

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  • DaddyzGyrl

    Thank you all for your thoughts and comments. I don't feel so crazy! Again, yes, I did just meet him.

    :-)

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    • topper33

      may i ask if your going to act on your fondness or not?

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      • DaddyzGyrl

        Of course not!!! I might have a crush, but I'm crazy!!! :-)

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        • topper33

          ok was just wondering is all

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      • topper33

        are you going to act on your feelings?

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      • topper33

        please make it an honest ans. i think your prob. really thinking about it

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  • It's not normal normally but you just meet him so it's normal in your case

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  • Somedood

    How do you find him attractive? It might answer your question.

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  • JordanLucky

    I do not know who you are, but it sounds just like my stepdaughter. I am telling you from the other side of the situation that it is not good.Espcially if you are sending messages on phone, facebook, phone calls or any form of innapropriate boyfriend/girlfriend type of communication. The other side,(meaning spouse) can sense it, feel it, see it and we DO mind it and get annoyed by it. You are not a stepdaughter to us, (wives), you are the other woman. So even thou it is sort of normal, if you act in a manner that is not daughter like, it stops being normal and it goes into the weird category. Something that is not supposed to happen or even be thought of. So from that perspective I will tell you to STOP all communication for a while. Take time to understand your feelings and understand that he is not your boyfriend or any love interested. He is your father! Treat him like it!
    PS: If this is my step daughter, you know how I feel. Go find yourself your own man and stop thinking of your dad as your main squeeze. Just saying!

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  • Mrwhatsya

    I mean, it's not NORMAL but it isn't out of the ordinary. Little girls do get their good feelings from their dads.

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  • PolkaDotLuv

    Psychologically yes, it was Freud's idea... then again look at him :s ...

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  • DaddyzGyrl

    That's interesting, and maybe quite true. I'll have to do some research on that. Thank you, I do appreciate your input.

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  • thats disgusting, okay?

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  • bunnyboo22

    Ur weird

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  • I think that is not normal because he is ur dad and u probably want to have sex with him which in turn ur baby will be deformed and people will always look down on u for doing it with ur dad

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    • robbieforgotpw

      The child would be her son and uncle if a boy

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  • certifiably_insane

    that's nasty

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  • *snff* snff I smell incest lolololololilililolololo

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  • no noooo thats really not normal at all weather its their step fathers or real fathers, well i guess its not up to them weather they hava a crush on their own father or not, but still thats just kinda fucked

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  • dragonlover

    If he is ur real father, then im not sure, but its totally understandable if he is a step dad or a dad u havent lived with ur whole life

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  • gross my dad is very ummm old!!!

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  • 0ldlady91210

    er you grim bastard, i think this is not only sick but desgusting, disgracefullll, twisted, sick-minded , and dirty!

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    • topper33

      lol

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  • ticklemypickles

    That is CREEPY.

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