Is it normal for boyfriends to live with girlfriend's family
Main question, is it normal for people to be okay with living in somebody else's house as a guest with no effort to provide financial support?
My boyfriend recently moved into my parent's house where I still live. He neended a place to stay because his mother is a useless, responsibility shirking cow. He was allowed to stay, and our relationship started taking strain because it was/is too soon for us to be living together. There is constant arguing over anything and everything.
In the beginning the agreement was that he could stay until he got back onto his own feet. He is studying part time and was supposed to get a job. He has failed to get a job and is upset whenever the subject is brought up.
I've been supporting him financially, though I don't have a job, I only receive an allowance from my parent's (which under normal circumstances is perfect). I have been paying for his gas, cigarettes, food and other expenses. He doesn't want to get a job, and treats his stay at my house like a holiday. He claims that he would be unable to study, work and maintain a relationship. I found this extremely audacious, how dare you say no when you a're living under my parent's roof.
I do adore my boyfriend and my parents do as well. We want to help him, but he doesn't seem to want to help himself at all and my family is getting sick of it now.
Why would he refuse to look for work? Other than being lazy and too comfortable in my home. I obviously don't want to end this relationship but I want him out of my house.
Is it normal to do this? He has nowhere to go really, his mother would let him stay in her house but financially she is unable to ssupport her young adult son, so he would still be in the same situation.
I need advice, how do I tell him to get a job so that he can try and get out of my house without breaking up with him.