Is it normal for boyfriend to enjoy hurting peoples feelings?

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My boyfriend likes to degrade people, particularly men that flirt with me. He enjoys encouraging people to commit suicide as well as talking shit to people online. I really love him and want to marry him but I feel like he's making enemies which will result in our deaths. thanks

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Based on 40 votes (11 yes)
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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    What's to love? How do you know this sadism won't be turned on you one day if you displease him?

    As for marrying him, unless you're a total masochist with a death wish, forget it. Run away fast and don't look back before you too are hurt by him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I'm sorry, but your boyfriend sounds like an asshole. Don't marry him, he will emotionally damage ya'll's kids.

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  • Mephisto1
    7 years ago

    examine the situation on a person by person basis and ask yourself: what did this person do to deserve this emotional pain from your boyfriend that they're experiencing? Did they provoke him? Are they completely sinless?

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Nothing to do with the people he's hurting: he sounds like a psychopath to me

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  • catalina
    7 years ago

    true

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  • (s)aint
    7 years ago

    I degrade men that flirt with me, especially online where they can VERY clearly see that I have a boyfriend. They deserve to be pushed into the dirt.

    I can also be quite cruel to people, if they deserve it.
    I have probably told people to kill themselves, especially when they whine for attention by saying they will kill themselves.

    But if you aren´t fine with his behaviour you are not meant to marry him.

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  • Carolizzy16
    7 years ago

    People are too sensitive BUUU HUU HUUU

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  • bigdata
    7 years ago

    fuck off you fag piece of sh1t

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago

    Why would you want to marry a goof?

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